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Thanks for the link,i'll check it out! | ||||||
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I think the process Erin describes in her article about soulmates, opens your heart. Just write for yourself what you want, then find out what really is important and what is serving only the ego (mind) and what is needed that opens the heart. Thanx, IamStillness, for writing these posts. |
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Hello Rockchick, I apologize for confusing you. But then again maybe that means we are on the right track. Quote:
Your SoulMate is a part of you, you cannot be separate. The SoulMate is not a person to find outside of yourself, but inside yourself. Picture this. A person is standing in front of a tall mirror. They look in the mirror and think to themselves "goodness that person is a mess! look at those wrinkly and dirty clothes!". The person tries cleaning the mirror with windex and even moving the mirror around, but no matter what they do the person in the mirror still has wrinkled and dirty clothes. We think it is silly because the image in the mirror is obviously a reflection of the person standing in front of it, but the person does not realize they are looking into a mirror at all. They think there is something wrong with the mirror. I realize the analogy is a bit flawed but I think you can see what I am getting at. Likewise if you are in a relationship with someone and you keep thinking to yourself how you would like them to be different, to be your SoulMate, and you keep trying to change them, it will not work. This is because they are a mirror you are standing in front of. You need to change yourself to change the reflection. In the case of your SoulMate, what needs to be done is to change and shift your heart. Here is a quote from the uniting TwinFlames website: "If you are in a relationship where there is a difficult situation -- where you find that your coming together will bring pain to another person -- OR if you think someone is your Twin Flame but he or she is with someone else or for any other reason unavailable – this means that your own heart is not clear. You are drawing the Twin Flame energy or the desire is being born in you to be with your Twin Flame, but something in you is still holding on to the old or keeping your Twin Flame at a distance." Quote:
The ego is not concerned about being able to choose "who" to love, but in what package it comes in. The ego wants to get, not to give. Do you see it now? There is no choosing who you Love... there is only choosing to Love. Conditional love is not love, it is ego. True Love does not have limits or conditions. True Love is giving, not getting. Quote:
All you need to do is feel that Love without thinking, and just surrender to it. Open your heart and feel the presence of your SoulMate there and just allow the Love to flow. Quote:
Say you are in a trainstation. There is a train currently in the station that you really want to get on to, and you really really think that you are meant to get on this train and ride it where it takes you. You keep trying to get on it, but the man at the door won't let you get on because you don't have a ticket. You refuse to accept this, and you hold up the train for hours, days, years, trying to get onto this train that you don't have a ticket for, because you are so sure you need to ride it. Eventually, the train just leaves without you, and maybe it breaks your heart. You are sitting on a bench in the trainstation totally bummed out that the train you wanted to get on so badly has left. Suddenly, you notice another train pulling in on the same tracks that the other train just left on. It's a really nice train and you get a good vibe from it. You approach and a man at the door of one of the train cars says to you "Goodness me! It took us FOREVER to get into this station! There was another train on the tracks that was being held up by something for a long time!" You look in your hand and to your amazement there is a ticket there, for boarding the train that just pulled into the station. You get on the train and... "happily ever after". Sometimes we don't really know what is best for us, but our egos can be really stubborn about things and slow down the process of the universe manifesting what is really in our best interest. Namaste P.S. you are welcome justbe | ||||
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If this rock guy is a reflection of some inner state, like some are saying, what does that say about your inner state? Say he is a soulmate. And the reason he showed up as an unavailable has meaning. What does that mean about your inner state? Why would a soulmate show up but not be reachable? What is the hidden message that could be there? He could be showing up like this just to help you see how you get attached to individual objects of affection and put them on pedestals. I know you think you know him. All you know is you think you would like him. I know you say you know some specifics about him and you have these "signs". So why the signs? To show you something about yourself. To help you realize what you are doing with your thoughts and attractions and where you are placing your energy. This thread is choke full of that kind of energy. I mean that kind of energy that is latched onto some idea or thoughts about the way it should be for you. It's all to show you how you are able to fall in love with someone you haven't even talked to, how powerful your mind of thoughts is, how imagination can produce signs. The signs could also be without you - that having something about this rock guy show up is the universe poking fun at you saying - "here's your soulmate but all he's here to do is show you how you latch on to your thoughts about soulmates and signs". I not kidding. Signs are this way too. They are messages that kind of play with you to help you see how you are operating - and even tempt you into exercising your ways. The universe will say "Hey, she would like this guy so let's tempt her into her pattern of falling for an unavailable guy so her imagination can get going on this - let's send her some 'signs' that he is the one". Then once you see a sign you get to feed all this in your thoughts which of coarse the universe will pick up on and generate more of the same. It might be a chicken and egg issue, but usually it comes from the inner self, with a bit of imagining - and then a "sign" and then imagination gets tipped off into gear and then more signs -etc... Even then signs that seem unrelated to your conscious thoughts - are really just subconscious manifestations that pop out in the universe for you to more easily see what your subconscious thinks it wants. It's to hopefully bring awareness to what it is you are doing that isn't working or to expose your ego's unconscious desires so you get a chance to not set yourself up for disappointments. |
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I liked the train story,although i find myself saying the same thing as with the mirror story...sure its a good story if youre just talking about catching a train! But when it comes to a REAL person,its different. Because trains dont mean that much to anyone. Who would get that obsessive over a certain train? They're all the same LOL I'm sorry if it seems like i'm challenging everything you are saying,i just have to understand it in order to be able to apply it to my daily life,and i have a hard time understanding all this. | ||||||
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It's okay RockChick, I am not offended at all by the way you perceive my words and respond to them. I deeply appreciate that you have spent the time reading what I have posted. Namaste (spirit of God in me bows deeply (and gives a hug) to the spirit of God in you) Quote:
Truly I say to you, the objects of your love in the physical world, are no more or less real than the objects in your imagination or your dreams. Decouple your Love from the object, and allow simply the Love itself. Decouple the idea of your SoulMate from the images you perceive with the physical senses. Now I ask you to contemplate, what it is that I am mirroring to you. You are a mirror to me also, and I thank you deeply for what you have shown me. ~ In Love ~ | |
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In my experience, I notice that when I wholeheartedly know something to be true, it's easy for it to happen and unfold in exactly the way I want. All my core beliefs and ideals are aligned to it, and I don't for a second need or notice outward signs of it happening according to what I want. Plop, there it is in my lap. On the other hand, when I want something but I seriously doubt, subconsciously or consciously, that I can have it or deserve it or if it's possible, then I need to look outside myself. That's when signs come in, and they can reflect any interpretation I choose to put upon them. They don't actually help other than to demonstrate that I'm really not in tune with what I want or know deep down that I can have it. All signs therefore mean "Go to work on yourself." I would suggest, therefore, that maybe you should look into what you think about yourself deep down, what you think about whether or not you can have a truly fabulous relationship with a guy you really want. Building that relationship with yourself, a truly deep and loving relationship, will make you shine in a way you could have any man you want. | |
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The unconscious reflections are harder to recognize - because we don't think it's something in our vibe. But unconscious vibes are a big part of us and hopefully we are able to get conscious about those things that get in our way. The universe will respond to show you what is unconsciously part of your vibe - but you have to be open to the signs as being an inner state reflection. Quote:
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It's your own lesson. The universe isn't trying to say you are doing the right thing then take it away. It's trying to show you what path you are putting yourself on and let you decide if you want to keep doing that. And a lot of that path is on automatic pilot based on what we've done in the past and habituated. Signs that a guy is "supposed to be with you" is more like showing you how you attached to this image of that. Along with some other stuff that is probably unconscious that has made this "soulmate" show up as unavailable. | ||||||||
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And i dont like how some signs "in a way" mean what you think...why not completely? Why not exactly? I dont get that. How can a sign about a person be correct except for the person that you see in the sign? lol I just find it hard to believe the universe would be so vague and misleading. I feel toyed with. If we were meant to know this stuff,wouldn't we all do it as easily as breathing? | |
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"Twin Flames are the forces of Creation, the two strands of the cosmic DNA from which life and Love comes forth." This really knocks me right out of my shoes, in trying to come up with a likening to how I picture this twin soul relationship, that's exactly the same likening I came up with. Like it was being some kind of spiritual DNA strand with some other being, totally unrelated in life but always connected on a spiritual plane and in some weird way even creating the same experiences. It's so bizarre really when you come to think about it. But I really do believe you can have a spiritual twin like you can have a physical twin, someone you're empathically connected with throughout your whole life and vice versa without even knowing of the other one's existence. If you don't dive headover into the love of your lifetime aspect, and see it all tainted rose, it's really pretty fascinating. Since physical twins are not meant to be your one and only love I don't think this is what having a soul twin is all about either. | |
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| hi i'm musiqcalessence, and i've read several blogs here over the last few months regarding a twinflame encounter i am current facing....your information here has been very informative and really a HUGE BLESSING TO ME ! i had no ideal what was going on until i read some of your information on the site..... thanks so much ! your sharing helped me so much ! i look forward to sharing and reading more..... thanks, musiqcalessence |
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i realized the date of the discussion only after i almost finished writing this. i don't know how things turn out for you rockchick but i'll still post my opinion anyways in case someone else is going through similar experiences. ~+~+~+~ hi rockchick, i came across this discussion on google when i was searching for information on soulmates. i've had a similar experience a few months ago where i met this great guy and synchronicities and signs seemed to suggest that he could be my soulmate. there are many small 'signs' but the one that stuck me(and i believe him too) the most was when i looked into his eyes for the first time. i felt like i was being pulled into his eyes and i felt like i can do anything i want since i'm 'home.' he chased me for a few weeks but certain things prevented us to be together and we don't see each other anymore. maybe i should make a new post for my situation too.. anyways, i've since read tons of books, interviews etc. on this topic and did a lot of reflection and introspection myself. i knew pretty certainly back then when we were on, that it was NOT the right time for both of us. i'm a huge believer that there is a time for everything. when the time has come, nothing can prevent it. but if the time has not yet come, there is nothing we can do to force things to happen. all the efforts then makes you desperate and needy, which is NOT good. katie holmes said in some interview that she knew she was going to marry tom cruise when she was young. but she didn't act on her knowledge/belief but simply lived her life as she normally would and basically have let go of the idea. i think that's how she was able to become the person she was when she actually met tom cruise. let's assume that the rock star is your soulmate. imagine that he can somehow see you and your life at the present state. would he like what he sees? would you be proud to shown him? would you like him to see you being desperate and needy or happily living your life? i think the best thing you can do..rockchick..as someone who's had similar experience, is to move on with your life and let go of your desire to be with him. focus on being a happy and satisfied person. that is probably the best thing you can do to manifest him into your life if he's really your soulmate. on the other hand, if he's not, you don't loose anything either. if your visions are true, then at the right time you two will eventually be brought together. in the meantime, just live your life as you normally would. hope you the best and let us know how things turn out! |
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In my experience, I thought I had found my soul mate about eight or so times, from having signs like uncanny similarities, an incredibly strong pull, things like that. I now know they all did serve some purpose in my life, but that didnt mean they were a (or THE) person i should spend my entire life with. Some of them I actually believe were probably soul mates of mine, but have veered off their paths in this life. I believe there are several soul mates, but the choices people make in this life could make them, say, not a very good "earth mate." But there are more in the world... I myself found a soul mate who is also a wonderful earth mate. I am greatful for him. I would say there was that thing where you "just know", but the stupid thing is I thought I felt that "you just know" thing with the rest of them too! There is a difference, but I cannot think of a way to explain it. The best way I can think of is like shopping for a pair of jeans (or for some, its shopping for a swimsuit, either way)... We women are eternally shopping for that GREAT fitting pair of jeans that fit incredibly awesome, are super comfy, make you feel like a million bucks cuz you just know you look stunning in them. We usually never find such pair, and we dream of the day we do. It pretty much never happens, and usually when we shop, we find a pair that is good enough, or even some that are pretty damn close (if only they were just a TAD bit longer...) BUT if you have ever had the experience, you know that when it happens, YOU JUST KNOW! In a way that you have never even imagined. First, you see them on the hanger. WOW! Those are awesome jeans, I wonder if they have my size... They do! It is already so exciting... when you go to try them on, its like angels are singing from the heavens. You cannot believe you have finally found the perfect jeans. You are suddenly in love with your own reflection in the mirror because the jeans just compliment you so terrifficly. You want to tell the world about them. You feel tremendous joy in your heart. You feel like all your prayers have been answered. It literally is THAT good, better than you ever even imagined possible. And every time you wear them, you always feel like God must have made them specifically for you and you thank him for them every time. |
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