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| ugh. I just feel like its a big pointless game now. I mean,it doesnt mean anything. You can make ANY syncronicity happen then,but why? If you cant have this thing you are thinking about,but only are forced to see "signs" of it poking into your life all the time,what fun is that if you know thats all it is? I dont get what the purpose is. I already know what i'm thinking about,why do i need the universe to rub it in my face that i can only think about it,not attract it? |
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| Posts and quotes from Erin's blog you might find useful: On learning to listen to and trust your intuition: Pesky Logic How to Attract the Relationship of your Dreams Do you believe in Soul Mates? Quote:
Can You Use Law of Attraction to Attract a Specific Person Into Your Life? Quote:
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Let's face it -- you can't be in love with this musician because you don't know him. He might actually be just a symbol of what you want in a relationship. If you're getting synchronicities involving him now, it may be a sign you are on the right path to a relationship . . . but that might not be with him. It could be with someone you are much more suited for and would get along with even better and would be much happier with. Wouldn't that be cool? |
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| I want to caveat by saying that I think that occasionally, synchroncities could be "signs" or "guidance". Theoretically "signs" or "guidance" should appear if your thoughts are focused on asking for signs or guidance, say, about Personal Situation X. The difficulty would then be distinguishing between a "sign" or "guidance"; or a direct synchronicity that reflects your thoughts about Personal Situation X; as opposed to your specific askings for a "sign" or "guidance". |
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When I was having intense Big Crush on my rock star, I had the same stuff happen all the time. Sometimes there was so much of it, I just had to laugh. Sometimes it was almost spooky. I never thought it was a sign I was supposed to go out to L.A. and try and make something happen with him, though. It was a reflection of my level of interest in him. |
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I get "signs" that mirror my internal focus, "signs" that mirror another person's internal focus. And then they're signs which seem to reflect a higher consciousness and can actually point to a certain action or future, and it makes sense if you think about it, cause if these signs reflect the thoughts of a higher consciousness that one would see what lies ahead or has to be done and could use the universe to mirror it back to you. The difficulty really lies in knowing which is which. And as rules of thumb I guess it may be a good idea to fall back on the theory that you have to ask to receive and so only if you've asked for guidance, support or a look ahead "signs" turning up may reflect either. Still telling one from another is a challenge. |
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The point of it is that we are creators! your thoughts, and what you put your energy into- manifests into a reality. So instead of focusing on some guy who isnt into you, why not focus on what you really want- being in a relationship with a man who loves you and wants to be with you, and who you of course desire too. Imagine it, write it down, make believe... whatever, but do it often and sooner or later that is what you will manifest into your life. now you seem to be putting loads of energy into something which isnt what you want (a guy whom isnt interested in being with you) Imagine you kept bumping into a guy who really liked you but you didnt like him at all- would you also think that you have a heavenly bond with this guy just cause you kept seeing him? that too would just be a result of his thought, but you have free choice if you want to be with him and fulfill his desire |
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YOU DON'T KNOW HIM. You've made up a fantasy about what it would be like to be with him, from all the stuff you've heard about him. It's not at all the same thing. I know that you will now insist that you actually do know him. |
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I actually don't even see any harm in saying, alright I'll want to be with this specific person and accept whoever he is and all that comes along with this relationship, I take the whole package without checking what's in it for me. If he's a drug addicted alcoholic and makes my life miserable 24/7 I accept that with a happy smile. Two things might happen, you get what you ask for ...or ...the other soul that's this guy says "no,thank you" and nothing happens. Don't know what would be worse, but you got the choice to ask for whatever you want. This is not about pointing a gun at some stranger's chest and tell him to love you. If you stay within social boundaries, if you respect the other person and his or her decisions, you can wish for being with whoever you would like to be with. |
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WHY do you want one? Is their a higher reason?( i.e not just someone tobe with so that you are not alone) What are you willing to let go of for you to be in a relationship? Are you willing to let go of a fantasy man for a real one? If the answer to that is yes- what do you like about this guy so much? is it that hes attractive and intellegent? great then just write it down: I am in a relationship with an inteligent man whom I find very attractive. Focus on characteristics instead of a person. And lets say it is him: Quote:
its a win win- if hes says yes- great, if he says no at least you will make room for something REAL. |
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| Well,he didnt even know any of us,we were just a big group of fans standing there. He couldn't be not interested in me when he didn't know me. I'm not saying he IS though,just saying,who is interested in somebody when they are one out of 10 people in a group that you are just walking by? Quote:
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| Hmmmm well it is true that the law of attraction states that you shouldn't be concerned about HOW your wish comes about, however I would think that there would be certain factors that affect the chances of it happening. For example: - Does this guy have a girlfriend/ is married? - Does this guy live in the same city as you OR comes on tour in your area a lot? - What's his status of popularity? Is he really big with the ladies in general? It's things like these that may increase or decrease the chances of this happening, because don't forget, though there is the law of attraction there is also logic. (Eg. If someone wishes they'd grow bird wings and fly off into space using the law of attraction, what do you think the chance of that happening is??? Practically impossible, due to pesky logic >.< ) |


