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|12-16-2011, 11:49 PM||#1 (permalink)|
Join Date: Feb 2007
Learning something - a game
I've just recently started a new job, although the people are on the whole quite nice, I admit I am struggling with the job role itself. At the moment the job at hand just 'don't fit' with what I can do (maybe it will change, maybe It will click). I obviously made a choice in taking on the job, and now I am realising that it is too big for what you can do. But that's ok, in the past I would of been all 'I am such a failure, why do always take on the wrong job' ( I still have that a little in me, but I am trying to stop that belief. I also have a feeling it keeps happening to me, because I am meant to tackle things, that I don't tackle.). However, I am shifting perspective a little bit now, I see all these obstacles as a game, and at least for me to take something away from it. I mean if I am going to 'fail', why not take a risk while you're at it and tackle a fear while you are at it?
So one of things I am trying to embrace is being more expressive and voice my opinions at work, I am also bracing myself to stand up to a co-worker (and maybe, just maybe that person will reflect on their attitude...I think they have the ability to do that), because I think this will help me with some blockages to do with fear of standing up to myself.
I am seeing this whole experience as opportunity to grow, even if I fail. So if you feel like your failing at something, why not just go with it, and tackle something about yourself while your at it...I mean what do you have to lose? I mean you might as well go out with a bang!
One last thing...it's interesting to observe, how projecting your opinions and just being yourself, actually gains the respect of other people, even if you haven't said anything momentous at all
Last edited by ellie; 12-16-2011 at 11:53 PM.
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