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It started last school year at the beginning of the fall semester; she was in one of my classes. On the SECOND day of classes, she began to sit next to me every day, flirting, talking to each other, sharing class work. She even gave me her email address within the second week. She told me almost everything about herself, her favorite foods, her family, etc. We even met outside of class often, such as in the library, or cafeteria, etc. She did like to copy my work a few times, always preferred to work with me over other classmates for some reason. She sat next to me virtually EVERY day of the semester. This was he first girl who ever really paid much attention to me, or *seemed* interested in me. I did ask her out a few times, but she always had an excuse, for example most of the time she had to work. When this happened I thought she may have been playing hard to get or something, I wasn’t sure. She even asked me out once, but it was right before I had an exam, so I think she may have been joking around about it. After about three months or so in, is when it hit me, I asked her directly about who this one guy is, and it turned out to be her boyfriend. She mentioned his name once or twice, but NEVER mentioned that she was in a relationship with him, ever, until I asked her about him. I was devastated about it, but I didn’t really try to let it show, or bother me. I knew that was when I should have tried to stop liking her, but for some reason I didn’t. About two weeks or so later, I spilled my guts to her trying to explain everything, and I was direct with her about my feelings, but she didn’t want to hear it and wanted to pretend like it never happened. I probably shouldn’t have, as I respected the fact that she was in a relationship with someone else, but it was eating me up inside. So after that, I decided I would still try to be friends with her, thinking to myself I could just forget about the feelings I had. Spring semester then rolled around, and we didn’t really see much of each other as often, a few times here and there. We still enrolled in the same class, but it was scheduled at different times of the day. Whenever we did see each other she usually asked me for answers to the test (My class was a few hours before hers.), or just a few things in general, what to expect in class that day, etc. Probably about half way into spring semester, I told her I had to cut off all communication from her, after I tried remaining just friends with her, but it wasn’t working out very well for me, as I couldn’t stop thinking about her. We didn’t talk or see each other for a few months. Then, about a few weeks before exams started, (it seemed random to me) she approached me in the library, wanting to talk to me (I don’t know why), it took me completely by surprise. It was the basic, “how’ve you been?” conversation. A few days after that I emailed her, telling her things couldn’t go back to normal, and asked her if she had feelings for me (How was I suppose to know if she was still with him or not). She insulted me and told me she never wanted to hear from me again, so I wrote her a “final good-bye” email (I was angry in it at the time.) and she seemed shocked like she did nothing wrong, and that I could say things like that. We then reconciled and cleared the air about everything, while agreeing we would just end all contact with each other once and for all would be best, and she even told me she got married to her boyfriend (yeah, *now* she tells me, and this is around the time I created the thread). After that we have never seen or heard each other since. I know, it’s probably sounds like a pathetic story. So no, this doesn’t happen with every girl I seem to have a crush on. It just seems really hard to forget about something like this.
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Don't know anything about if anyone have noticed it yet. But your vivid imagination would be hugely used if you used it on writing short stories or books about this theme. Just try to use your own life and write about it, use other names ofcause and places. Maybe this will keep you occupied with the same thoughts but on another level, and the shame of this whole thing will disappear pretty fast. At least try to make a cartoon or short-list or anything artistic with words that are your thoughts. I guess this is what Lise a Norwegian Goth-girl made when creating Nemi (one of the most successfull strip-cartoon writer and painter in Northen Europe now. Nemi is a Goth-girl that seems to be so different to other girls, but are totally like the other girls arround. I guess this made her stronger and felt better about herself (Lise I mean). This approach is kinda Taoistisk to the problem, since using what you seem to be good at, in the totally different enviroment can take the actually bad behaviour away. Think of a theif who seem to be really articulate, maybe that person could be used another place (detective or something like that) or the spammer who turns himself in and work for the police instead and becomes legal in his way of being. And remember it is ok to have strange thoughts, they are just in your head. Do not take too much action ofcause on what you actually think, that is not good. Being too fast on commiting can scare girls off. Just my two Euro-cents! Love Leelene |
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I'm kinda in the same boat as james. I feel you man, I really do. And don't take that the wrong way Thing is with me though: on the one side I don't WANT to stop thinking about her, its like one of the few things that keep me entertained. On the other hand, it does distract me. When school's starting officially for me next week, I'm most likely going to have a very busy, but boring life. School -> homework -> food -> work/gym -> homework -> food -> sleep. Rinse and repeat. Going to the gym is atm the only thing I really enjoy. Hell, I'm getting bored behind my pc nowadays. Thinking about that girl just gives me pleasure, even though its distracting. And that's where the problem lies: its distracting. I can easily space out for a few minutes just thinking about her. In class. Doing homework, or whatever. It ain't the first time something like this has happened to me. It has happened to me around twice more. First time it lasted around 1.5 years I know how not to think of her, but I don't want to. It's very... annoying Just wanted to get this out of the system |
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jamest12, Quite frankly I think this woman has led you down the garden path. She toyed with your emotions for her own questionable purposes. She was dishonest and deceitful. For some reason she had something to prove to herself and she used you to do it. No wonder you're having trouble coming to terms with it. You didn't read her signals incorrectly. What you were unaware of is her motivation. Don't allow yourself to be a casualty of her game playing any longer. You read it all correctly, what you didn't read correctly was her reason for doing so.
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| Tons probably, I go to UW-Milwaukee, although I wouldn’t know where to go, or who I’d be looking for. Quote:
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It's normal to have these. I recommend finding someone who's developing at your pace, who is cool with talking about things. Slamhot boy and I, for example, can discuss things and be happy about them with no expectations for the future. So we're driving to get bagels one day, and he goes, "Yeah, I was thinking about how cool it would be to have a daughter." And it was a really endearing moment. And it passed, and it didn't freak me out or have me thinking about a ring. Sometimes people just like to daydream. Slamhot likes talking about having a family because it's a goal of his, not because he knows I'm his absolute future lifemate. My brother said something good years ago, that if you're a monogamous type, that you SHOULD look at your partner as potentially being a spouse in the future, even in the beginning. You need to look at and evaluate that. If there's no chance, why date them? But truly getting to know someone takes awhile, and in that time, you have to talk, not assume plans.
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I guess it just sucks when you think you know someone, and they appear to be interested in you, but things just don’t turn out the way you want them to.
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Please let me bring up two points. 1. You are all you ever need to be happy, and you should always be happy. Think about unhappiness/obsession/desire as a signal for you to grow and strengthen who you are. If you are not happy with yourself, you cannot be happy with anyone. I do not know if it is any comfort, but I think even if you got with this girl, unhappiness would have followed. 2. Breathe in deep, very deep from your stomach while you do this: Now, every time you have an obsessive thought, or think about this girl, do not resist the thought, let it sit in your mind and feelings, try to look at yourself having these feelings from "the outside" and think of reasons why you have to daydream, why you "need" this person in your life? What you find will be personal, but examples might be: 1. You always have to have what you want, otherwise you have failed. (False just let life be in its own way, the fate of every wave in the ocean is loss, but there is always another one there to replace it, why think of the wave that got away?) 2. You need to be needed in order to feel like a perfect person. (False you are perfect even if no one needs you) Take the whole excersize as a chance to grow and discover something new about yourself, this is because all you unhappiness revolves around you and your thoughts. You can control exactly how happy you are at any moment. It might take a few days or months, but keep it up, once you have it, you have it, and you will be a more complete person for it. Self knowledge is strength!
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Are there any pills or medication or something to help me forget? Nothing else is working...
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A few YEARS? That seems like an awful lot of time. (Also, I haven't spoken to her since I created the thread, months ago, so I am nowhere near her.)
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In this example you can take away the pain with medicine, but you have not fixed the source of the pain. To put the example in your situation, this girl is one time you have touched the stove, you can cover it up with pills till you are better, but at that time you will probably meet another girl and get into the same situation all over again. So what is happening to you is not healthy and to really fix the problem you must learn to understand yourself so you do not obsess over a person. What you are going through now is feedback, your life is telling you that you need to change. Take up that challenge, be brave, and start making changes. Running to something to try take the pain away will only cover up the real problem till it resurfaces again.
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In my opinion this girl you are obsessing over represents something that you feel makes you a better person. You have to find out what quality this person has and put it in your life. Then you will be happy and content with who you are, and you won't have to obsess over her. When you are happy with who you are, all your relationships will be easier and without obsession or neediness. You don't need anyone, and if you ever feel that you do, take it as a sign that you need to grow, and work till you have the things you admire in those people as a part of your life. Check out this thread: marry yourself first Also, sorry to just throw links at you, but you might like this Pavlina blog post: http://www.stevepavlina.com/blog/200...oy-of-sadness/
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You have a boundary problem. Work on yourself and who you are, not who she is/might be/whatever. It's not selfish, it's self-preservation. Don't lose your identity through obsessing over other people. It's not worth it.
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Is it that you expected a totally different outcome - like that she might be with you right now and instead she had a boyfriend all along? Do you feel cheated? Or are you mad at yourself for falling for her and her antics? The only thing you can really do is put this behind you and consider it a lesson in human behavior (yours and hers). There may have been red flags that you ignored because you really wanted her to find you awesome. There may also have been times you weren't really being true to yourself or you would have noticed she was playing you. This is all a tough pill to swallow but you have nothing to gain by dwelling on it. It was never what you thought it was and that's probably the hardest part to accept. You definitely deserve better this. Don't let this get the better of you! I wish all you the best.
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I know I don’t want to keep thinking about it. What exactly am I suppose to “do for myself” to help me try to forget about her? It’s been awhile, yet my delusional thoughts are still here.
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But I still tried to keep my distance as I respected the fact that she was already in a relationship. Despite all this she never actually spoke the words directly to me that she wasn’t attracted me. Even after I “cleared the air” with her, where I explained everything that went on between us, every little thing that happened, I wanted *her to know* I even asked her a bunch of questions, like what she was thinking about the different situations. She liked my writing, but she didn’t really give me many clear answers, and by this time, we weren’t speaking or communicating to each other any more, basically for good. I can’t explain why I’m still thinking about because as I’ve said before, I don’t want to.
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| Maybe the key to resolving this once and for all is to figure out why you're still dwelling on it. You don't have closure. It sounds like you need for her to come clean with what she was doing and that's not likely to happen. There is still some part of you that believes she was sincere.
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Also, don't expect there to be any quick fix. You don't decide to become a body builder and expect huge muscles the second day? You have to work out, excersize, build muscle and build strength, the thing is: it gets easier each day. What I mean is that the memory of this girl might last your whole life. Are you going to let it be a torment or something you use to become stronger? When you remember her you can start obsessing and saying "Oh if only" or you can think of all the lessons you learned and how you grew stronger from this girl. One day you will look back on her like a 5 pound dumbbell, something that is light but that you needed at first to start building muscle. What I am saying is change your perspective on what has happened to you. Don't look at the weights in the gym as a heavy burden, look at them as a chance to build muscle and become stronger. Don't look at this girl as heavy emotional pain, look at her as a tool for personal growth and self-discovery. Really, only you can answer that, but I will try give you examples of things I have found in myself. When I obsess about someone else it is because I miss the way the confirmed my ego and made ME feel special. Really what they are doing is filling gaps in my life that I wasn't aware I had, then when they leave there is emptiness and pain. What I do is write down a list of all the things I most admire in the person and things I have wrote down include: beautiful confident suave well-spoken have a lot of friends/connections have a lot of success in terms of money/career Then I tell myself that I can have all those things, and will work towards them. Try make a list of all the things this girl makes you think of, why do you obsess over her? Why is she so perfect? Write down those qualities. It will hurt to do it, but no pain, no gain. Do it. After you have written them down, tell yourself that you can have all those things in your life, make it a goal, and remind yourself of them always when you think of the girl. I will be interested in your list, if you choose to share it.
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| Amazon.com: Real Love: The Truth About Finding Unconditional Love and Fulfilling Relationships: Books: Greg Baer This is the best thing I could find on the subject of real love. I believe I have real love in my heart for my ex, but sometimes my grief and dispair of the relationship ending seem to get in the way of that. I haven't had much control over my emotions or my life after she decided to part ways for whatever reason. |
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If you do not, everything else is moot. If you are confident and happy with yourself, nothing can take you off your stride, including someone choosing to move on without you. The best thing you can do is work on a healthy self-concept. Relationships come and go. If you are taken down each time things don't work out, you will be a wreck. Take care of yourself and focus on what you have to do.
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As briefly mentioned in my "marry yourself first" thread, I used to put a lot of energy into dating relationships, now I focus largely on myself and close friendships. Several years ago I came across David DeAngelo's work (among others) and found it useful for motivating me to increase my experiential understanding of women and life in general. Were I talking to a good friend that was telling me about various dating problems, I'd likely send him here first: David DeAngelo's Mailbag I'm not so concerned with seducing anyone at this point, but do have general guidelines I've come up with for myself to keep from developing too many feelings for someone that may have little to no affection for me: 1. As soon as I know I'm interested in a girl, I ask her out, rather than building her up in my imagination for months first. 2. If she isn't interested in meeting up, move on. 3. If she acts interested but isn't available to meet, and doesn't offer up an alternative time/place to meet, move on. 4. If we haven't kissed by the second meeting, move on or consider her a friend (which can be fine, I have many good female friends, but if you've waited and built her up in your mind too much already, keeping her around may be asking for years of pain on all sides). 5. At least at the beginning of the relationship, don't make a habit of buying gifts or doing things (such as her homework) that would make her want you to think she likes you when she really doesn't. In other words, don't try to buy anyone's affection, rather focus on becoming someone that doesn't need to. The above may cause me to miss out on some opportunities, but it also helps keep my life much smoother and happier. I know very well from years ago what it's like to think a girl likes me, build things up in my mind rather than test things out, and then not wanting to accept reality when it finally hits me. Last edited by openeyes; 09-13-2007 at 06:29 PM. |
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Besides these physical qualities about her I admired: -beautiful eyes -wonderful smile -nice-looking body, soft skin -great hair There are some more qualities I enjoyed: -she always seemed to ask me for help on the classwork, no one else -everything she told me about herself -whenever I saw her outside of class, she was usually by herself (even though later she told me she has many people outside of class she works with) -she was the first girl who really talked to me outside of class -her eagerness to keep in touch (via her giving me her email, asking for my phone number, etc.) -her flirtiness (with me, above all people) -the compliments we gave each other -the closeness I felt when I worked on the class material with her There were even a couple of qualities about her that I initially thought would repel me, but didn’t (besides the bf fact): -she smokes -she’s 5 years older than me I really believed, in the beginning, that she would be my first girlfriend. Foolishly, I pictured doing just about everything with her, going out, eating meals with her, riding in my car with me, introducing her to my family, watching TV, movies with her, going on vacation with her, amongst many other things.
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I don't know that this will help much, but I had a somewhat similar experience in college. The details are different, but I was left with a feeling much like what you describe. I sat down in the only open seat on my first day of Health class. Next to me was a guy I thought was cute. Soon, we started a conversation (I think I forgot my pencil or something). It turned out that we liked the same things and were always catching ourselves saying "ME TOO!". We always talked before and after class and he paid attention mostly to me during class. He would ask to meet up to study. He got my phone number. Any time he saw me around campus, he would come over and talk. I didn't come to find out he already had a girlfriend, but at the end of the semester he asked me to hang out a couple of times. The second time we watched a movie and then he took me home. I never heard from him again. I had never been in a relationship before and I thought, like you, that he was it. I did all the wishful imagination that you did. I was devastated. Now, I don't even remember if I tried to call him or not, but I know that for the longest time I wondered what I had done or why I wasn't good enough for him. I actually felt kind of crushed. One day, the pain was gone and I realized how great my life was. Believing that everything happens for a reason certainly helped at one point. I later heard some things about him from a friend at the school he transfered to which made me thankful nothing ever happened between us. I can't give you any magic pill to help you get over this, nor will I pretend it's easy. But, you sound like a very kind, thoughtful guy which is sometimes hard to find in college. I am confident you will find someone who will treat you well and share a truthful, fun, fulfilling relationship with you. Believe me, one day you will wonder what you were ever thinking about this girl. For now, focus on your schoolwork. Focus on your friends and doing fun stuff with them. Focus on improving any area of your life that you feel might be lacking. Affirm just how awesome you are to yourself...things like this tend to make us question our worth. You are worth more than what this girl has treated you to. Good luck!
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I wish I could have known some of these things then, which I know now. Maybe now it will be much easier once I start to feel for other options, as I never want to experience this kind of pain again.
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It's so strange, now I can barely remember feeling so tortured over this. It happened about 6 years ago. I would say the first couple of months were really bad (it was summer, didn't have classes to distract me). In six months to a year I was feeling 100% better. I came to realize that I wanted someone who wanted me and could be honest. I think you've been a sweet guy. Unfortunately a lot of people will take advantage of that, maybe on purpose, maybe not. Try not to feel stupid. You feel what you feel and that's okay. I know you will be alright.
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@Boreas - So was just wondering what you made of my list of what attracted me to her? Any special gaps to fill, what the cause is, etc.?
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