Help!!!

[Rubyred]

For some reason i need help. i cant tell my fiance my feeling witch i thought i was doing at one point but its been driving me crazy to the point i dont even wanna get married at this point and i been with him for 8 years already and i really dont communication skills with him really arnt there. i thought everything was fine but its getting bad as i type this.

[neilpage]

* wishes' good things for you.

[Curious cat]

It is really hard to offer any advice with so little information.

if you feel you don't feel as though you know what the root of the problem is, I would perhaps start by keeping a journal and keeping note of the things that bother you, and maybe do some soul searching. i believe the answer lies wihin you, you just have to look.

All the best, I hope things improve.

[tod]

Originally Posted by Rubyred

For some reason i need help. i cant tell my fiance my feeling witch i thought i was doing at one point but its been driving me crazy to the point i dont even wanna get married at this point and i been with him for 8 years already and i really dont communication skills with him really arnt there. i thought everything was fine but its getting bad as i type this.

The communication skills aren't there? And you say you can't / won't / haven't told him your feelings? Is that your fault or his?

If you open your mouth and it ends up being a one-way conversation, then you will have proven that something needs to change.

[sandy]

Pick the key words, say it out, release yourself from it, and go to the next step from there.

Just make yourself go do the first necessary thing, make your feelings clear to him, and figure the rest out from there.

What's needed to be unwind shall be loosened from the very end, go up little by little until the whole knots get untied.

Good luck there