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Old 08-11-2010, 12:08 AM   #1 (permalink)
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One of my friends is dead in an accident and I am so shocked about it

She got married to the man she loved (which is a gift in India where dating is not allowed at all)
It is just an year passed after their marriage.
Our whole college friends were happy for them.
And now this sad thing happened.
Her 1 yr old niece was there too.

Whenever I hear these kind of news, I ask myself why not me ?
I am living just for the sake of living.
God might take me instead of those happy souls.

I dont understand and am overwhelmed with negative thoughts.
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I am really sorry for your loss.

Not though it helps much, but these feelings of grief are completely natural. They will pass, in time. *hugs*
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Very sorry to hear that. However, life goes on and you shouldn't blame yourself for not dying instead of her. Let go of your friend - and let's hope she's in a better place now...
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