Letting Go

[Nimo]

Today, i let go...i completely let go of someone who has been making it impossible for me to move on with my life in the direction of my desire. yesterday, i had a long talk with my girlfriends about relationships and the 100 stupid things girls do to f@#k up their lives and i saw my list of 99...among them was fear of rejection and inability to let go.

One of my girlfriends urged me to resist my urge of wanting to know. she said, and rightfully so, that i love to poke at the hive until i've gotten stung and only then do i retreat..she urged me to walk away before the bees go buzz..that is exactly what i did.

I deleted that person's existence from my life and heart. never to call, text, chat or communicate with them, ever again. am free to pursue that which i want without distraction. i am finally free and loving it.

Mastering self control, particularly, letting go has been a huge challenge for me but i am finally beginning to see a ray of light down that dark dark tunnel. it is sad to see that person go but their time as come.

[leshka]

I am sending you my great respect Nimo!

Here is an visualization exercise that helped me a lot when I was in your situation.

I open my hand palm and imagine the person standing on it, so small like a bug, I blow wind on him and the wind carries him away and he disappears from my sight.

I don't remember where I read about this technique. Regardless how silly it may sound it really works. Somehow... subconsciously...

I even tried it one time on my boss who I worked for 3 years and felt completely stuck and unhappy, after this exercise in 3 weeks I got an offer from a different company and I have never seen this person again.

[lifetimelearner]

Originally Posted by Nimo

Today, i let go...i completely let go of someone who has been making it impossible for me to move on with my life in the direction of my desire. yesterday, i had a long talk with my girlfriends about relationships and the 100 stupid things girls do to f@#k up their lives and i saw my list of 99...among them was fear of rejection and inability to let go.

One of my girlfriends urged me to resist my urge of wanting to know. she said, and rightfully so, that i love to poke at the hive until i've gotten stung and only then do i retreat..she urged me to walk away before the bees go buzz..that is exactly what i did.

I deleted that person's existence from my life and heart. never to call, text, chat or communicate with them, ever again. am free to pursue that which i want without distraction. i am finally free and loving it.

Mastering self control, particularly, letting go has been a huge challenge for me but i am finally beginning to see a ray of light down that dark dark tunnel. it is sad to see that person go but their time as come.

wow what an inspiration
I need to take a clue from you and do the same thing !
thank you for sharing

[Manomanman]

I think the main things girls do to mess up their lives is to experience guilt over their own sexuality. This leads to all sorts of nasty problems.

So many women need to be liberated from the "sex = slut" paradigm that's been forced down their throats. And men need to be taught to treat women with more respect.

[sushanth]

Dear Nimo,
I'm sending my love and respect to you. A girl has been messing up my brain and heart for far too long to be acceptable now. I'm craving for that experience of liberation. I'm wishing it happens soon.

@leshka: Will try your technique right now and let u ppl know what happened.