Overcoming addiction to shemale porn

[EliteConscious]

How does one overcome his addiction to porno. Or in my case shemale porno. It all started when I was 14-15. Was on a porno site a friend told me about. It was great for a couple months. Then all of a sudden something popped up and i couldnt tell what it was but all of a sudden i felt great blood flow. First I saw great big breasts and sexy slutty faces. Then I looked down and saw a 10 inch penis.

I was shocked. I could feel such great sensations from a man. I feel nothing from men who dont look like super hot chicks so im pretty sure im not gay. Yet for some reason those shemales just make me explode nonstop and i cant help it. I feel no shame about this. I feel like every man has demons. Some like kids some like men some like men dressed as beautiful women. I dont know if this is a problem or not. I have no social problems from this. I did feel some guilt at first but have finally dealt with that. And accepted myself for my carnal desires. Yet I believe in god and god says dont lay with a man as you would a woman. Yet i would never do a man even a sheman. Lmao so funny saying that word. I never was attracted to shemales when i was younger cause they were all ugly. Yet if anyone has seen these shemale porn stars they look better than most chicks you see on the street.

Please help. I come here in peace. I am not a troll or nothing. Just a young man looking for serious help. Please help.

[spirit4711]

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Is it the porn addiction you want to stop, or is it the shemale aspect that is bothering you?

[EliteConscious]

Originally Posted by spirit4711

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Is it the porn addiction you want to stop, or is it the shemale aspect that is bothering you?

Shemale part.

[liq3]

Yet I believe in god and god says dont lay with a man as you would a woman.

The Bible also says that masturbating is a sin and your penis will fall off if you do it.

See, the funny thing is I love male anime characters that crossdress (real ones are usually ugly). They get me off better then anything else. So I'm in a very similar situation to you. I know I'm not gay, because occiasionally I masturbate to straight heterosexual porn.

Personally I don't see any reason you'd want to stop. If you really want to though, the best I can suggest is meditation. I've used it myself several times to quickly change certain beliefs or behaviors to a great degree. Just start with the basics at first, then when you're more confident, learn to take control and go where you want, and make that place with your subconscious. Make your subconscious stop being attracted to shemales, and instead, well whatever you want.

[spirit4711]

What have you done so far in stopping?

[MmeIntentional]

If it helps here's a females point of view.

I started watching porn from the age of 11 years. I was hooked on it for many years but never saw it as a major problem and I used to watch real freaky stuff too. I then suffered from major depression and the meds made me have no sexual interest at all not only with porn but in relationships too.

However I know what you mean about shemales, they are just so convincing these days that it can mess a straight person up.

I honestly feel that my input won't help you much but why don't you try and find some sex sites/forums for addicts also here

Would you say that your sexual behavior is compulsive? Is it a problem for your relationships and general life?

[crescive]

You're into what you're into. If you feel no shame then what's the problem? The shemale porn is there for a reason, to satisfy the market for people like you who are also into it! Obviously, you are not alone! If it's just the porn but you're not interested in actually being with a shemale then I hope you can find someone who is openminded enough to not view this in a negative light. Lots of people have weird fetishes. Don't present it as a problem and your future relationship should not be affected. Or, if you don't feel comfortable, there is no need to reveal your secret fetish, given that it is not presenting a problem to how you relate to your partner sexually. Cheers!

[oberlee]

I'm a female, too, and here's my 2 cents. Sexual attraction isn't logical. It's a response, and everyone has their own unique things that attract them. So, just know that you're okay. There's nothing wrong with you, and there's really no reason to feel bad or feel like you need to stop this.

When I was a young teenager, I felt the same way about masturbation, and being in the early stages of puberty when your hormones are crazy, I both wanted to all the time and felt that I would go to hell for it (I grew up Catholic, but am not any more). So the more I wanted to stop, the more I did, and the more I did the more I wanted to stop. I wish now I could have just enjoyed myself without the shame, because it's perfectly fine.

We're sexual beings, and I personally see sex as a gift from God--heterosexual, homosexual, porn, shemales, the whole bit.

Just be easy on yourself. If you want to stop, that's fine, but be easy on yourself while you do that. However, if you only want to stop because you feel you SHOULD, then I have to say, "why?" If you want to stop because you'll feel better about yourself, sure. But know it's perfectly fine, and it's perfectly normal.

[siryessir08]

The bible also tells slaves to obey their masters...don't take it literally, it was written by people 2000 years ago at a time when people were not very sexually developed.

There is nothing wrong with enjoying shemale porn, as long as it doesn't negatively effect your life.

You can't chose what turns you on, and stopping yourself might just frustrate you.