Personal Development for Smart People Forums

Personal Development for Smart PeopleTM Forums


Go Back   Personal Development for Smart People Forums > Personal Development > Emotional Mastery
Register FAQ Members List Calendar Search Today's Posts Mark Forums Read

Emotional Mastery Emotional intelligence, addiction and recovery, grieving, loss, fear, anger, guilt, resentment, frustration, anxiety, depression, happiness, joy, love, kindness, forgiveness, self-acceptance, confidence, escaping the pit of despair, EFT


Welcome to the Personal Development for Smart People Forums, the place for lively, intelligent discussion of all personal growth issues -- physical, mental, financial, social, emotional, spiritual, and more.

You're currently viewing as a guest, which gives you limited read-only access. By joining our free community, you'll be able to post your own messages, access many members-only features, see the new messages posted since your last visit, and of course remove this header message. Registration is fast, simple, and free, so please join today.

If you arrived here from a search engine, you may want to explore the main site first, which includes hundreds of deep and insightful articles on a variety of personal development topics.
Reply
 
Thread Tools Display Modes
  #1 (permalink)  
Old 07-05-2008, 02:10 AM
Banned
 
Join Date: Nov 2007
Location: England
Posts: 422
Spartan is on a distinguished road
Default Scarcity Mentality Is Reality!

In the area that I live there is definately a scarcity of jobs, but there is an abundance of people eager to take on even the most menial of jobs. This makes it hard for someone like me to find a part-time job, since there are likely to be at least 20 people applying for a simple low-wage 1 day a week supermarket job, and at least 10 of those 20 probably have a proven track record with a minimum of 5 -10 years retail experience!

I have no experience other than voluntary work, and this makes me feel like I'm not as good as other people. I am letting it affect my self-worth. I have finished my first year of university and I am constantly worrying about filling up the blank space that is my CV. I know qualifications alone won't get you a job, but what do employers expect if no one is willing to give you a chance to get your foot in the door?

I hope that in the future the economy will recover and the job market will go back to what it was. I hope that non-deluded, polite, slightly introverted, inexperienced people with average confidence will once again be given a chance to grow as people.

Right now the job market is as bad as I've ever seen it. A couple of years ago any school leaver could get a part-time job. Nowadays employers are barely recruiting anyone, and when they do there is usually a surplus of experienced applicants. I never thought it would be this hard to sell my labour. It makes me feel a bit useless really.

Last edited by Spartan : 07-05-2008 at 02:13 AM.
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!
Reply With Quote
  #2 (permalink)  
Old 07-05-2008, 03:17 AM
Moderator
 
Join Date: Oct 2006
Location: San Rafael, CA
Posts: 4,272
Dan.Linehan is on a distinguished road
Default

The people who can't find jobs need stuff, right? Help them out.
__________________

Best,
Dan Linehan
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!
Reply With Quote
  #3 (permalink)  
Old 07-05-2008, 03:42 AM
Banned
 
Join Date: Nov 2007
Location: England
Posts: 422
Spartan is on a distinguished road
Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by Dan.Linehan View Post
The people who can't find jobs need stuff, right? Help them out.
I don't understand?

I think I'll start a blog called Personal Depression for Smart People.

Last edited by Spartan : 07-05-2008 at 03:47 AM.
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!
Reply With Quote
  #4 (permalink)  
Old 07-05-2008, 04:59 AM
Senior Member
 
Join Date: Nov 2006
Location: Australia
Posts: 1,012
Keith is on a distinguished road
Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by Spartan View Post
I don't understand?
Dan's saying: look for opportunities in the current situation. If there are so many unemployed people about, how can you create value for them in a way that earns you money?

I would add: If all the existing jobs are very hard to get, think about how you could create new ones.

Quote:
Originally Posted by Spartan View Post
I think I'll start a blog called Personal Depression for Smart People.
Heh, that would be cool. (I'm not sure if Steve's trademarked "for smart people", or just "Personal Development for Smart People" though).
__________________
When people see things as beautiful, ugliness is created.
When people see things as good, evil is created.
When the way is forgotten, 'morality' and 'piety' need to be taught.
-Dao De Jing, Chapter 2
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!
Reply With Quote
  #5 (permalink)  
Old 07-05-2008, 09:45 PM
Senior Member
 
Join Date: Aug 2007
Location: In the middle of the deep blue sea.
Posts: 240
m18pak is on a distinguished road
Default

Try doing the jobs that nobody else wants to do, like telemarketing.
__________________
We do not see the world as it is.
We see the world as we are.
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!
Reply With Quote
  #6 (permalink)  
Old 07-06-2008, 08:10 AM
Senior Member
 
Join Date: Sep 2007
Posts: 547
Trezker is an unknown quantity at this point
Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by m18pak View Post
Try doing the jobs that nobody else wants to do, like telemarketing.
IMHO, telemarketing should be illegal.
__________________
"We're here for a good time, we're not here for a long time." - Colin Mcrae
“It is no measure of health to be well adjusted to a profoundly sick society.” - Jiddu Krishnamurti
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!
Reply With Quote
  #7 (permalink)  
Old 07-07-2008, 03:19 PM
Member
 
Join Date: Jan 2007
Posts: 61
Gazzali is on a distinguished road
Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by Spartan View Post
In the area that I live there is definately a scarcity of jobs, but there is an abundance of people eager to take on even the most menial of jobs. This makes it hard for someone like me to find a part-time job, since there are likely to be at least 20 people applying for a simple low-wage 1 day a week supermarket job, and at least 10 of those 20 probably have a proven track record with a minimum of 5 -10 years retail experience!

I have no experience other than voluntary work, and this makes me feel like I'm not as good as other people. I am letting it affect my self-worth. I have finished my first year of university and I am constantly worrying about filling up the blank space that is my CV. I know qualifications alone won't get you a job, but what do employers expect if no one is willing to give you a chance to get your foot in the door?

I hope that in the future the economy will recover and the job market will go back to what it was. I hope that non-deluded, polite, slightly introverted, inexperienced people with average confidence will once again be given a chance to grow as people.

Right now the job market is as bad as I've ever seen it. A couple of years ago any school leaver could get a part-time job. Nowadays employers are barely recruiting anyone, and when they do there is usually a surplus of experienced applicants. I never thought it would be this hard to sell my labour. It makes me feel a bit useless really.
Hi

Try blogging

gazzali
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!
Reply With Quote
  #8 (permalink)  
Old 07-09-2008, 01:06 PM
Senior Member
 
Join Date: Mar 2008
Posts: 372
NightSpirit is on a distinguished road
Default

I don't know your opinion of LOA principles but there seems to be a lot of negative thinking in your post. But this is the best place to spill all that out.

Since you don't have anything to lose, what would it hurt to sit down and write out your "ideal scene" like they suggest and then spend some time feeling the feelings you will have when that happens? Sometimes it works. Sometimes, especially if you are specific, it kind of focuses your attention to look for what you asked for. If you don't want to call it LOA, call it using your intuition to see the job you were meant to get anyway. Same result.
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!
Reply With Quote
  #9 (permalink)  
Old 07-09-2008, 03:13 PM
Senior Member
 
Join Date: Apr 2008
Posts: 673
mercuryrising is on a distinguished road
Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by Spartan View Post

I hope that in the future the economy will recover and the job market will go back to what it was. I hope that non-deluded, polite, slightly introverted, inexperienced people with average confidence will once again be given a chance to grow as people.
Actually, this is the chance for non-deluded, slightly introverted, inexperienced people with average confidence to grow. It's the perfect conditions.

I would look at how you can relieve other people's suffering. There are many people around you who have it a lot worse than you do. How can you specifically help them?

I read this quote from a 22 year old millionaire:

"It all comes down to figuring out ways to reduce human suffering and to provide opportunity for all people."
__________________
--------------------------

My Blog on Addiction and Spirituality the Church of Ned

Somethings got to give.
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!
Reply With Quote
  #10 (permalink)  
Old 07-09-2008, 08:14 PM
Junior Member
 
Join Date: Jul 2008
Posts: 25
Jross22 is on a distinguished road
Default The basic question of capitalism...

If you can't find a job, then you're in luck, because jobs are a terrible stop-gap, like chewing gum to plug your radiator.

If you can't figure out something that somebody would pay you to do, you probably haven't spent enough time asking that. Just look around at stuff that people don't have time or energy to do. If you have any special knowledge, like mechanical/ computer skills, find people with problems you can solve. Just strike up conversations with people about stuff they never have time to do. Or come up with lists like that, and save the ones that sound doable and or especially profitable.

That's called being an entrepreneur. A value creator. Self employed. Much nobler than being a domesticated beast of burden.]

Ahem. Employee. Oh, and I am an employee.
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!
Reply With Quote
  #11 (permalink)  
Old 07-10-2008, 05:28 AM
Banned
 
Join Date: Nov 2007
Location: England
Posts: 422
Spartan is on a distinguished road
Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by Gazzali View Post
Hi

Try blogging

gazzali
Actually I have recently started a blog.

Read my latest entry: Is There an Afterlife?

Last edited by Spartan : 07-10-2008 at 05:30 AM.
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!
Reply With Quote
  #12 (permalink)  
Old 07-10-2008, 03:50 PM
Senior Member
 
Join Date: Jan 2007
Location: UK
Posts: 273
beautyscientist is on a distinguished road
Send a message via MSN to beautyscientist
Default

Hi Spartan,

I can sympathise with your plight. I remember that finding a job was nearly impossible when I was your age straight of university with a respectable but hardly inspiring degree.

Looking back I wish I had spent more time just doing what I liked when I had the time.

It is easy to get caught up in your current situation. I suggest trying to get some perspective. You may have few resources and opportunities at the moment so make the best of the ones you do have. If you can do that I think that makes you pretty special.
__________________
A student of the science of beauty. www.colinsbeautypages.co.uk
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!
Reply With Quote
  #13 (permalink)  
Old 07-10-2008, 03:58 PM
Senior Member
 
Join Date: Dec 2006
Location: Texas, USA
Posts: 3,237
{aspiring_to_clarity} is on a distinguished road
Default

Move to Texas and you can old job .
__________________
I beg to dream and differ from the hollow lies. This is the dawning of the rest of our lives. --Green Day
The more I see, the less I know, the more I'd like to let it go. --Red Hot Chili Peppers
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!
Reply With Quote
  #14 (permalink)  
Old 07-10-2008, 04:42 PM
Moderator
 
Join Date: Nov 2006
Posts: 7,284
Angela will become famous soon enough
Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by {aspiring_to_clarity} View Post
Move to Texas and you can old job .
She was a professional proofreader.
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!
Reply With Quote
  #15 (permalink)  
Old 07-10-2008, 04:47 PM
Senior Member
 
Join Date: Dec 2006
Location: Texas, USA
Posts: 3,237
{aspiring_to_clarity} is on a distinguished road
Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by Angela View Post
She was a professional proofreader.
HA! ...can have my old job of course.

I can't go back and edit it...it's too good I think I was on the phone when I was posting that.
__________________
I beg to dream and differ from the hollow lies. This is the dawning of the rest of our lives. --Green Day
The more I see, the less I know, the more I'd like to let it go. --Red Hot Chili Peppers
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!
Reply With Quote
  #16 (permalink)  
Old 07-10-2008, 05:22 PM
Moderator
 
Join Date: Oct 2006
Location: San Rafael, CA
Posts: 4,272
Dan.Linehan is on a distinguished road
Default

I can has job?
__________________

Best,
Dan Linehan
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!
Reply With Quote
  #17 (permalink)  
Old 07-10-2008, 05:47 PM
Moderator
 
Join Date: Nov 2006
Posts: 7,284
Angela will become famous soon enough
Default

With the locals around here, it does seem like we can leave out half the words and w'll stll nderstnd ch othr.
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!
Reply With Quote
  #18 (permalink)  
Old 07-11-2008, 10:32 AM
Senior Member
 
Join Date: Jan 2007
Location: UK
Posts: 273
beautyscientist is on a distinguished road
Send a message via MSN to beautyscientist
Default

As Steve Martin said, some people have a way with words. Others do not have way.
__________________
A student of the science of beauty. www.colinsbeautypages.co.uk
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!
Reply With Quote
  #19 (permalink)  
Old 07-11-2008, 12:13 PM
Moderator
 
Join Date: Nov 2006
Location: Oblong, Illinois
Posts: 571
Gene is on a distinguished road
Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by {aspiring_to_clarity} View Post
HA! ...can have my old job of course.

I can't go back and edit it...it's too good I think I was on the phone when I was posting that.

Sometimes I make useful guesses from typing errors I read. My guess this time was hold as in hold job. Gene, who was not a proof reader in in this life or any other as far as I am aware!
__________________
A traveler on the journey!

Gene
www.talktoyourself.com
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!
Reply With Quote
Reply


Thread Tools
Display Modes

Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

vB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off
Trackbacks are On
Pingbacks are On
Refbacks are Off

Similar Threads
Thread Thread Starter Forum Replies Last Post
Two and a Half Men - Abundance vs. Scarcity Amanda Norris Intention-Manifestation 2 10-23-2007 03:55 AM
Do you live in a world of scarcity or a sea of abundance…??? Shamou Personal Effectiveness 23 06-19-2007 02:05 AM
Scarcity Narz Intention-Manifestation 15 02-24-2007 05:46 AM
Abundance mentality vs Scarcity mentality - Poll bylto Business & Financial 4 01-28-2007 07:13 PM
Zero Sum Mentality? Ibanez Business & Financial 2 12-24-2006 12:07 PM


All times are GMT. The time now is 12:20 AM.


Powered by vBulletin® Version 3.6.8
Copyright ©2000 - 2008, Jelsoft Enterprises Ltd.
Search Engine Optimization by vBSEO 3.1.0
Copyright © 2008 by Pavlina LLC