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[vickz]

Hello All,
I am vickz. You can check my profile but nothing great to write about. Leading a very unsatisfactory life since my mind started working. There are some positive things life but as a person I am never happy.

Hope I will help and be helped here.

Vickz

[vickz]

There is so much pain around, every one is looking for some help. Why are we like this ? We have beautiful brains which are not in our control. We know what we need to do but don't do. We (most of us) keep on digging holes instead of walking with joy.

I slept late wandering around some bad sites and woke up early today with a fearful dream. I missed my flight, forgot to join my job or intimate my manager. I was so scared when I woke up.... I have an headache now.

Sorry again.
Vickz

[Angela]

Vickz, welcome, and I hope you find it valuable here.

So, are you willing to feel good on purpose? I don't mean "willing" like you're willing to go to the dentist or you're willing to speak to us. I mean: are you dynamically willing -- are you committed to a path of feeling good, and cutting off the possibility for yourself of indulging in feeling bad? Are you willing to take at least 100% of the responsibility for living a life you love, and to letting go of resignation, blame, shame, guilt, and thinking that something outside you has to happen before you feel good?

If you are dynamically willing, what are you willing to do for yourself right now?

[Christian223]

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[Spartan]

Lol, I admire your honesty for listing 'porn sites' in your interests. I wonder how many people don't want to admit that as an interest!?

[The Cloud]

Originally Posted by vickz

There is so much pain around, every one is looking for some help. Why are we like this ? We have beautiful brains which are not in our control. We know what we need to do but don't do. We (most of us) keep on digging holes instead of walking with joy.

Why are we like this? Because we want to be. We want to suffer, because it justifies looking outside ourselves for help. As long as you need help, you need suffering to justify it. Take a hold of your life and choices, and you will no longer need suffering.

[vickz]

I am really happy to see your kind support. Thank you all.

Yes, I am willing to take responsibility to change my negative behavior. I want to be guided (once in a while), and I will do my part for others.

I have tried EFT on and off, I will give it a try again.

I never share my problems with anyone close to me. My friends see me as a totally different (cool) person. My wife and kids do not know any of my bad habits only my bad moods. I try to hide them most of the time.

I read most of steve's articles and got the information and insights but I was not able to implement anything.

My porn site visits are on and off (once or twice a week for 3, 4 hours).

R, Vickz