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04-12-2008, 04:27 AM
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 Shyness isn't the worst thing! hi guys, i have a weird mixture of shyness and lack of confidence. I am pretty frustrated because i dont seem to have the ability to communicate properly with people. ok, dont get me wrong, im attending college course and every thing is fine. but my problem is that i have troubles dealing with people. i always ask myself, why me? why me of all people around me? i feel that im different. when i speak to somebody i cant have a successful conversation with him/her. i dont have any friends and its hard for me to make any. i dont know im totally frustrated. im 19 but i cant enjoy life as normal people because of my shyness and lack of experience. i hope u guys have some good advice for me. its really bad to have this kind of problems at my age its kinda real suffering.. im planning to work when i finish college in a couple of weeks but other than that i dont have any thing in my list i dont even have a list. seems like im killig my time without any purpose or success.
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04-12-2008, 05:54 AM
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| I understand the feeling. I know I can communicate with people but with strangers It's hard. I don't know what to say and I feel weird. I know now that it's the toughts in my head that I have to change. I have difficulty making new friends because of it. I hated going to university because of this problem. Having to talk to strangers and not knowing what to say. |
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04-12-2008, 07:47 AM
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| Why is it that you are so shy and unconfident? What thoughts go through your head when you are in situations where these things are issues?
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04-12-2008, 01:46 PM
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or the situation. its my belief that something related to my early past has to do with this. i mean my childhood. my parents were so concerned about my safety they would n't let me play with peers, and they filled my brain with all that crappy thing: dont talk to strangers, some people are dangerous... and u know what, it had led me to some weird kind of complex, a cant enjoy being with people, and i feel down deep inside me that im not willing to have friends.. may be im afraid of.. i dont know.. with that being said, i think people dont seem to enjoy being with me too...
__________________ Future, fate, outcomes, consequences, destiny, success; are just a few of what have been a matter of choice and intention for those who truly wanted. |
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04-12-2008, 08:58 PM
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| Why are you afraid that you don't want friends? And why do you feel that your parents are to blame?
__________________ We must conquer ourselves, and allow our selves to conquer the world. |
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04-14-2008, 03:08 AM
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| because as i said they kinda hurt me. i hope they had given me something more useful than just warning me and fill my mind with all that crappy thing.
__________________ Future, fate, outcomes, consequences, destiny, success; are just a few of what have been a matter of choice and intention for those who truly wanted. |
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04-14-2008, 03:51 AM
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| Do you feel that they were trying to hurt you? If they were, why? If they weren't, why do you feel that they did what they did?
__________________ We must conquer ourselves, and allow our selves to conquer the world. |
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