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Old 01-30-2008, 02:28 PM   #1 (permalink)
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Hi everyone! I've had lots of luck changing my life for the better, via intention and manifestation. I've even had success in this area with work, but I'm STILL not where I want to be! I try to form intentions for myself (I'm currently in sales and want to work for myself from home on the internet --- thought I'm not sure how!!) to figure out what it is I want to do, and I keep coming up blank. I need a little inspiration and I'm wondering where to find it. I'm getting fed up with my "job" and the first time I read "10 Reasons to Never Get a Job" I was convinced that this model would never work for me forever. And I can see myself getting frustrated (i.e., I'm home now when I should be in the office!!). I want this to happen soon! I just need to know how to put all of the pieces together.
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Hi everyone! I've had lots of luck changing my life for the better, via intention and manifestation. I've even had success in this area with work, but I'm STILL not where I want to be! I try to form intentions for myself (I'm currently in sales and want to work for myself from home on the internet --- thought I'm not sure how!!) to figure out what it is I want to do, and I keep coming up blank. I need a little inspiration and I'm wondering where to find it. I'm getting fed up with my "job" and the first time I read "10 Reasons to Never Get a Job" I was convinced that this model would never work for me forever. And I can see myself getting frustrated (i.e., I'm home now when I should be in the office!!). I want this to happen soon! I just need to know how to put all of the pieces together.
Now explain what you want from us because I lost your train of thought.
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Lol. Sorry. I tend to ramble.... I want to know how to take the next step. How to figure out what it is that I want.... I know I don't want to work for this huge billion dollar company and slave away to make them richer. I want to work for myself doing what I love. I just don't know what that is! I've tried some of Steve's exercise, such as finding out your life purpose, and I've done the exercises in Living Congruently, and they helped... But I'm still stuck. I'm tired of working for someone else. I see my boss stress out constantly and then try to act like she's not obsessed with work, and that she doesn't care what the higher ups think about "budget" and "numbers," but she clearly lives to serve these people. One day when I was sick and needed to go home she told me that's fine, but please remember this job is your first priority and you need to take care of yourself during your downtime so that you're able to come in and work. I was FLOORED! A

Again, I digress. Sorry. I just need to know where to start, and how can I do it while I have all of these other silly committments to this "job." One that I could really care less about. Does this make more sense?
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I suggest keeping your power to yourself instead of passing it to us.
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I've been in similar situations before. It seems like you are hugely resisting your current situation. I believe it is your vibrational energy that is attracting what you want. If you are resisting your current situation, you are not sending out positive vibes. I would suggest you stop pushing the issue and try to accept the "is-ness" of your current situation. Then you can start directing your energy to attract what you want. It will come to you in it's own perfect time. But to start, work on your resistance. I know it's not easy. I have written something about it on my blog, Friday Feeling - Discover your energy and zest for life.

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Derik,

This makes perfect sense. I'm resisting it so it is persisting. Thanks for the insight. I'm not sure which article on your blog you're referring me to, I clicked the link and was directed to the main page. Can you be more specific? Thank you so much for the insight!
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What is the next step? Save every penny you can, and be prepared to quit. It can happen suddenly, so make sure you have enough resources to survive. Expect the unexpected.
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Here is a more specific link. I hope it help. Friday Feeling - Discover your energy and zest for life

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Hey mate!

This is specific advice to your problem. If you really want to jump into this you should saturate your reality with the direction you want to go.

This means reading (maybe learning to photoread - it's AWESOME) and listening to tons of audio about working from home.

This is intention manifestation at it's best because your ENVIRONMENT is reinforcing the MINDSET which reinforces the environment - and so on.

So good look with this and smash through that wall!
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You say you want to work from home on the internet but don't know how. If that is your burning desire maybe you could find out what it really is you want to do via the internet and then make that your intention and see what manifests. What I'm saying is that you have to be really clear about what you want and then take action perhaps by communicating with others, investigating possibilities, taking a course, getting some coaching or something else they may get you started on the net in the area that most inspires you.
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