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Old 09-08-2007, 04:03 PM   #1 (permalink)
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Default What things would you like to do, but are afraid of?

Akashic Librarian mentioned on the daily "must do's" thread "do something that scares you". Whenever I come across a fear or difficulty that seems worth dealing with, I get excited and go after it. As a result I'm running a little low on new fears to conquer and thought people might have some ideas to share. I've already done public speaking, sales, skydiving, talking to/asking out random people (as well as some I deeply knew and cared for) and such, now I'm seeing what else we can dig up. This interests me because people usually have so much energy tied up fears, whether they're conscious of them or not, that the release of moving past them can be incredible (personal development for adrenaline junkies ...). Also I imagine other people's thoughts may inspire more to take action in liberating themselves from/through their perceived limitations.
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Stop procrastinating. I can't completely explain what causes me to put things off sometimes, but it's completely fear-based. I'm not a lazy person, as I just spent yesterday afternoon racking up a large shipment of servers that arrived earlier that day and had no trouble getting going with it, but if I'm dis-interested in something, I have a very hard time getting up the motivation.
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Going "all-in" on just about anything.

I do a lot of stuff some would call risky, but I always hedge my bets.
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Hmmm...

Feel the Fear and do it anyway, mentality.... right or wrong way to go about things? Can't say for sure.
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Feel the Fear and do it anyway, mentality.... right or wrong way to go about things? Can't say for sure.
That tends to be how I do most things at this point, though only when it seems the fear is unjustified. I'm not about to do something JUST because it scares me when it seems likely to result in serious harm while offering little potential benefit in comparison (such as playing Russian Roulette). With my version of risk assessment I do tend to take a lot more risks than the average person, but I'm very conscious of exactly what risks I'm taking and how.
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Start a website (or even just a page) for my intentional drum circles, reiki, and intuitive readings.
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Nothing, I think. But I doubt it's true... there's some things I could do but I don't like to do... sometimes it's hard to tell if you fear something of if just don't like it... mmm...
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I'd like to travel from Vladivostok to St Petersburg and from Quito to Buenos Aires alone and without money. I guess I should learn some self defence first
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