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Basically, though.... whatever. The thread turned into an interesting discussion, and people will find the thread for years to come by way of Google and other search engines, and they might learn something or appreciate at least a few of the posts, even if you don't. I mean, you're all "Hey, I ignored all of you and did what I felt like doing, so there!" It just seems really strange. Maybe it's a cultural thing, though. Again, whatever. | |
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Drugs get you high, and low, but they can be dangerous in a lot of ways: legally, physically, mentally. If you want to get a little high now and again, weed probably wouldn't be a bad choice, if you know how to get it safely. I will say, as a regular smoker of cigarettes and the mary jane, and frankly a regular drinker as well, the most consistent, satisfying, long-lasting high I get is still from completely cleansing myself of toxic things like that and meditating. I do this regularly, and the highs far exceed the substance-based highs - although it does take more effort. | |
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At this rate we may morph into a super e-lucid butterfly wo-man. | |
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Still though...you're 25. Did you really need us to point the advantages and disadvantages out to you? Surely you can see what they are without any input. | |
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In other words, you'll rarely ever get a logical thought out response when it comes to this subject because so many are just acting out the "SMOKING IS BAD!!1!" Program whenever they see a subject like this. | |
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| | #98 (permalink) |
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Smoking is actually bad for you. It's not programming...it's fact. I don't think non-smokers think it's "bad" as in "evil bad"...just that it stinks, it makes people sick and there is very little positive effect on people who have to put up with smoke from cigarettes blown in their face everywhere they go. I've never thought that smoking is bad, and I've never known anyone who doesn't smoke say they think that either. Almost everyone I do know who doesn't smoke thinks that smokers are selfish though but I think it's closer to reality to say they simply don't get how much their habit effects people around them, because their senses have dulled long ago and they don't even smell how bad it is, or how bad they smell. It's an all round stupid thing to do if you really think about it...that doesn't make it "bad" and it doesn't make smokers "bad"...just stupid! I also think that everyone who responded in this thread gave logical reasons for it being stupid. We may have mistaken the purpose of the thread though, but given the thread title, is it any wonder? Last edited by elucidate; 11-26-2011 at 09:17 AM. |
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I won't comment on the health issues since everybody already did that in depth. Another thing to consider is the social aspects. Smokers tend to like to hang out with other smokers as non-smokers do the same with non-smokers. Non-smokers don't want to smell smoke while smokers don't want to be antagonized by non-smokers. This issue is extremely important in relationships. It is very challenging to make a relationship work in the long run if one is a smoker while the other is a non-smoker (and hates smoke). So you may also want to consider your present and future social circles as well. Hope you make the right decisions. |
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I can't see why anyone over 16 would consider taking up smoking. Young and dumb, I took it up at that age. But at 25... hrmmm, odd Unless you have schizophrenia, in which case it would make sense. Nicotine helps with schizophrenic symptoms and many of them self-medicate with cigarettes without really knowing what they're doing. They just get the craving all of a sudden. If that's the case, or actually in any case, I would recommend nicotine patches and never touching a cigarette in your life. |
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LOL, this is certainly different. Well, the negative sides are obviously that it's gross, and causes cancer. Or well, at least to me it's gross. The positives that it gives you a slight buzz and helps people relax, I suppose. Overall, it's probably a pretty dumb idea, as it also cost lots of money, but hey – it's your life! |
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My best friend works in a big reputable cancer clinique. Not long ago they had a conference on the hazards of smoking. The first part of the conference was going for hours, and a friend of my friend's, a doctor said: "Well, when are we finally having a break to go and have a sigarette!" Most of the doctors smoke there. No joking, its an educated choice that many people are taking. Not me. I believe that smoking is connected with subconscious self-punishing. |
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The fact is this: smoking *may* (even the most clinical studies use that word "may" btw) have detrimental effects to your health. Some common health issues involve heart issues, lung issues, and gastrointestinal issues. (Although, interest enough, I was told that I had acid reflux -- aka "heartburn" -- because I smoked and I haven't had a cigarette in over 3 months and I still get massive heartburn. I'm still waiting for that to go away. Ok, those are the facts (and it doesn't take a rocket scientist to figure out that taking smoke into your lungs is harmful to your health). You know what else causes very similar health issues? Caffeine, sugar, processed food, trans fat, sedentary lifestyles and a lack of physical activity. But you never hear someone say: EATING A PIECE OF CAKE IS STUPID! YOU STUPID CAKE-EATER!" or "EATING THAT FRENCH FRY IS UTTERLY RETARDED. HOW STUPID YOU ARE FOR EATING THAT FRENCH FRY." But that greasy french fry or that piece of cake is doing the same amount (if not more) damage than a cigarette does. And loads of people eat that kind of food as habitually as a smoker smokes. Smoking a cigarette is no more stupid than eating a piece of cake, candy, greasy food, cup of coffee, soda, wearing perfume/cologne (yeah, those have carcinogens in them), etc. My point being this: It's a choice, just like everything else. And that choice has certain consequences...some of them of good, some of them bad. The good consequences of smoking involve relaxation and breathing techniques to sooth stress, chemically altering the brain creating clarity and focus (nicotine does this), and, nowadays anyway, it gets you up and outside (because you can't smoke inside anywhere anymore). It also provides a social outlet (because groups of smokers DO socialize). So, the choice is no different that any other "bad" thing you do (such as eating or drinking something unhealthy). Why on EARTH people choose smoking as their "patsy" is beyond me. At the end of the day? Smoking is a choice with consequences just like anything else. Calling it "stupid" is just your opinion and NOT a fact. | |
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| | #105 (permalink) |
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And actually, the thought that smoking is stupid is a product of our generation's brainwashing. The same group that brought you things like D.A.R.E. (which always makes me laugh when potheads wear those shirts), that drinking will kill you, and that smoking marijuana will make your heart explode. The same group that thinks using scare-tactics is a good way to keep people from indulging in minor vices. I mean, I don't smoke anymore (and don't intend to pick it back up), but I still think that the majority of the anti-smoking propaganda is a gigantic hunk of ♥♥♥♥. |
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So the feeling of resentment towards smokers and the disgust at the manipulation done by tobacco companies, added to what looks like extremely self-destructive behavior, is what makes smoking the patsy. | |
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I can understand that if you've watched a loved one die of such diseases caused by smoking. That must be tough. And, not to detract from the pain one would feel from such an experience, that STILL doesn't make their decision STUPID and it is NOT a cause for anybody to get resentful toward smokers as a whole. That resentment is actually indicative of some unprocessed pain. Just because you watched someone die from lung cancer does not give you any right as a person to point your finger at someone and call them stupid. I guarantee you that by the same standard you judge smoking as stupid, you've probably made at least 6 stupid choices of a similar vein today that ISN'T singled out by our society and made out to be stupid. | |
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I was speaking only to the "patsy" issue - why smoking gets singled out over other choices that could be seen as just as stupid or even moreso. Now, I don't think that being all resisty about smoking -- being an "anti-smoker" -- is a wise choice, itself, by the way. It's a great metaphor, though, because like so many things, when someone resists and makes you wrong about some choice of yours, it often has the opposite of your consciously intended choice. When a smoker sees anti-smoking material, the same part of his brain is stimulated as when he gets a craving for cigarettes! Add to that the FY Syndrome - resistance to the resistance, and craving for relief from the stress felt when people resist you - and anti-smokers end up creating what they most don't (consciously) want. However, I don't know what you mean by not having a right to call someone or their choice stupid. Of course we have that right! Huh? You may not think it's a moral right, like they're wrong if they do it, but that would put you in the same boat as an anti-smoker. D'oh! In my evaluation, some choices are stupid choices. That I myself also make stupid choices doesn't mean my evaluation of other people's stupid choices is invalid. If I'm lucky or self-aware, maybe noticing other people's stupid choices will help give me more access to trying something else about my own. |
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In the same way, I do not see the choice I made to smoke everyday for eleven years as stupid. It was something I chose to do, it was a means to an end, and it had certain affects on me. I can live with that choice, even if it was a harmful choice (to my body that is). There are no stupid choices, because every choice you make (whether you perceive the reaction to be positive or negative) shapes us. | |
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And: I still think some choices are very stupid choices. The choice to give your child a book of matches. Choosing to drive drunk. Getting pregnant in an attempt to improve an abusive relationship. Choosing to ignore signs of hernias. Regardless, though, people have the right to judge or evaluate others or their choices as being wrong or stupid. The only person who gets to choose what goes on in my head is me ... and I think anyone who thinks they have any say about my rights to think or judge is wrong and stupid. | |
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Who was it who made me laugh so hard, was it Marianne Williamson? when someone stood up in her audience and said, "This may be a stupid question, but...." and she interrupted and said, "There are no stupid questions, only stupid people."
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"Well, that was a stupid call!" "This assignment is stupid!" I see the label of "stupid" as ironic in that sense because it applies to the person USING the label moreso than to what that person is judging as "stupid." But life has its little ironies like that. And I'm not meaning "stupid" to be "wrong." Funnily enough, I DO think there are WRONG choices (but mostly from a subjective point of view rather than an objective point of view). A person can make a wrong choice, but I don't think people EVER make stupid choices. It's impossible for a choice to be stupid. So, you're quote about there are no stupid questions, only stupid people is part of what I'd call irony. Because I'd assert that to call something stupid is just an admission of ignorance on your part. (Not YOU specifically...I'm speaking generally.) And the reason it is ignorance because the chooser (the one supposedly making the stupid decision) never says to himself "Oh, I think I'll do something stupid today. You know what? I'll go ahead and give myself cancer. That sounds like fun." Nobody does that. A smoker picks up a cigarette for reasons that make perfect sense to them, even if it confounds the rest of the world. And you're right...you have the right to think whatever you want. You just took a figure of speech very literally there. | |
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I have no doubt that smokers have reasons for smoking -- very compelling reasons that make tons of sense to them, and also very compelling ones that don't make so much (conscious) sense to them. I'm not confounded by the choice to smoke or the reasons -- I understand why someone would make that choice. In the same way, I understand how someone could have a brain fart, or be on mind-altering substances, or be distracted, and hand their baby a book full of matches to play with. There is a kind of "sense" to every decision, even ones I find stupid. Knowing what that sense is (they were on drugs, they were thinking about their other kid in the hospital on life support, whatever) doesn't make the choice any less stupid, in my view, if one values the life of one's child. More understandable, maybe, but no less stupid. (p.s... sorry for taking your figure of speech so literally when you didn't mean for it to be -- you also took my joke very literally! | |
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I'm not sure what a better word would be for what you are describing, but I simply disagree that intelligence plays any kind of a factor into the decision to smoke. | |
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I get that you disagree with me, and that's ok. All is well! | |
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Personally, I think smoking is a terrible (stupid) idea. Allow me to explain: Have you ever noticed, while reading the paper or watching the news, that no one seems to burn alive in house-fires? Most of the time, they die of smoke inhalation. So... would it make sense to walk into a burning building and breathe in the smoke? Of course not! That would lead to death! A far better solution is to inhale smoke in measured doses, while paying exorbitant prices and medical bills. An untapped market is drowning. The effect is essentially the same: an unwanted agent enters the lungs and eventually, the person suffocates. My idea would be to sell small vials of water that the person would inhale into their lungs, providing that euphoric feeling of not being able to breath. I can just see the masses lining up now... |
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To be honest though, I don't even think about smokers anymore. It's the first time I have given an opinion about this subject in years. I have had the awful experience before of seeing a friend smoke his lungs out, remorselessly, and I could actually FEEL his body screaming out for him to stop. It was really hard to take...and I had the perception that if smokers don't care about their own bodies enough to respect them by not putting hazardous chems in their system, then they can't really care about me either. This is the main reason I choose to be around non-smokers as much as possible. I don't not accept friends who smoke...but I will do my best to not put myself into their line of fire. Some are considerate enough to not blow it in my face though, so I like those smokers much better than the ones who don't care. Last edited by elucidate; 11-30-2011 at 10:12 AM. | |||
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Once I was able to really truly appreciate my body and all that it does for me, I just couldn't justify punishing it anymore by choking it to death with crazy crap like what's in cigarettes. I don't just go along with programming...I think for myself about this issue. I've been a smoker and analyzed every single angle and my conclusion is that it's just a stupid thing to do. Last edited by elucidate; 11-30-2011 at 10:14 AM. | |
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