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That's pretty powerful results if you ask me. | |
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Maybe pariah was too strong a word...social outcasts perhaps? | |
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The fact that most children have watched something like 10,000 murders and regular acts of violence on tv and in movies before they are 12 years old these days is a disturbing reality, and it causes massive de-sensitization to graphic images. They simply aren't affected by it. What they are affected by is the threat of being cast out of the tribe and the fear of disapproval and not pleasing others. That touches on primal fears. | |
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I was also told that if I smoked at the field again (keep in mind that I smoke in the parking lot) that they would ban me from the field. Now, I understand why it's not cool to smoke at the field or in the bleachers, but over in the lot away from everybody? I think that's total BS. And that is an opinion I would hold whether I smoke or not. If I heard that about someone else and I didn't smoke, I would still think that is ridiculous. The whole culture here has seemingly deemed it completely acceptible to be rude and judge peoples character if they smoke. It's gotten way out of hand. | |
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I'm with Criseyde. I don't smoke cigarettes because I'm horrified of those black lung pictures. I still think smoking can be awfully sexy and I don't see many people demonizing smokers, at all. Social pariahs?! Worse than social pariahs?! Not where I'm from.
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Graphic images definitely register and affect me, though, sometimes very much. | |
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| And if children can have their sensitivity driven out of them at such a young age, they are more likely to condone or 'aquiesce' to unacceptable behavior they may be witness to in daily life. They are more likely to not feel and to have less empathy than sensitive people do. |
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Bear in mind, I don't use these as excuses. In fact, I'm gearing up to quit for career reasons actually. | |
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Maybe it's because US cigaretts boxes don't show those awful awful pictures? I can see people getting desensitized in other countries where they're forced to look at it all the flipping time, but no way, not me. | |
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I think many smokers think they look quite sexy and cool too...I don't see it that way personally. There's nothing 'cool' or sexy about inhaling arsenic and thousands of other chems into delicate lung tissue...to me anyway. There's a lot of demonizing that goes on in Australia...I can't speak for other places. Smokers I have spoken to feel bullied into quitting, not because they want to but because they are sick of being given the hairy eyeball everytime they light up. Last edited by elucidate; 04-26-2011 at 05:02 AM. | |
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When I was in London over the summer, actually, I had a nice chat with a cashier at Sainsbury's about this -- I had never seen the boxes before, but she obviously had, and she showed them all to me with relish, while telling me "I can't believe anybody smokes, I shudder every time I sell a pack, just from the pictures" etc. Honestly... I have a problem with rudeness but I don't have a problem with disincentive campaigns that show health risks &c. And that goes for drunk driving too. It may be a personal choice, but it's also a public health issue (especially drunk driving). I see no reason not to try and convince people to stop. | |
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But I've shared personal experiences that say that this type if ostracization does exist. I might even suspect that it's related to me living in a highly religious area. That's just a guess though. | |
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Yeah, I wonder how well it's been at preventing kids from taking up the habit; I doubt it's been very effective in making people quit. I don't mind blatant, in-your-face campaigning in these cases, though. I think it's shocking and upsetting, but the same goes for lung cancer and drunk driving. I wasn't really joking when I said that drunk drivers should be made to do time at their county morgue. | |
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I used to think the way you do about images not affecting minds, but I have come to believe, through my exploration of my own mind, that graphic images can and do have a disturbing effect on the mind. Maybe just mine and others of more sensitive dispositions, but I have a hard time believing that it doesn't affect other peoples minds on some level, which they may not be aware of? | |
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I do think it is a regional thing, though. I come from perhaps the most liberal town in the most liberal state in our country, and I read once that democrats are more than twice as likely to smoke as republicans. It really isn't very taboo at all where I'm from, and I haven't seen anything near what you've described up here. | |
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| It depends on how I'm feeling, as to whether the images affect me or not. I generally do get squirmish though when I see them...I even get disturbed when I see the cardboard advertisements for toe rot cream that pharmacists display in their shop windows here...they're the worst to me. I get so disturbed when I see giant toes with advanced toe rot...yeeeesh.
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I know it's impacted me but I don't think it's a bad thing. I'm much, much harder to faze, which means I'm also harder to control. It's a tradeoff. It's also made me better at utilizing and releasing things I used to repress, which is ultimately a wonderful thing. The thing that was most harmful to me as a child, whether we're talking violent images, pornography, what have you, was the notion that I -should- be harmed. That screwed with my coping mechanism and it took a long time to understand and undo the damage. | |
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