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Old 04-13-2010, 09:24 PM   #1 (permalink)
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Default Spitzer Study Published: Evidence Found for Effectiveness of Reorientation Therapy

Spitzer Study Published: Evidence Found for Effectiveness of Reorientation Therapy

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Spitzer's findings challenge the widely-held assumption that a homosexual orientation is "who one is" -- an intrinsic part of a person's identity that can never be changed.
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I think I like the way I am right now and am perfectly happy to stay very gay, making the question of whether it's changeable or not completely irrelevant to me or my life.
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That gave me a chuckle.

That's the key though, choice. I didn't read the article, but I can see it become fuel for a conservative religious bent... which I am not too keen about, I must say. If it ain't broke, we don't need to fix it

It is still probably unclear whether the change is genuine or a case of suppression. I know I should probably read the article before I say that but that's my hunch.
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The human mind is incredibly flexible.

These questions are purely existential.

The idea that we are intrinsically anything is absurd. The idea that we exist as a single entity is absurd. The entire clinical paradigm is absurd.
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This is an old study and deeply flawed as scientific research. Here is a link with a discussion of Spitzers "research": Analysis of Dr. Spitzer's study of reparative therapy
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Yeah in my psych classes they definitely suggested that homosexuality has strong genetic roots at the very least.
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Worthless, all the participants were self-selected.
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Old 04-15-2010, 11:02 PM   #8 (permalink)
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I definitely believe that human sexuality is on a spectrum. Just what constitutes sexuality really doesn't matter - it's still on a spectrum.

For those who aren't at one extreme or another, sure, most can probably find some degree of contentment with someone even if they're on the wrong side of their ideal 'line'. But does that mean they should?

I don't want to be dramatic and go on about things like "persecution", but I will say that it saddens me to see how fundamentalist religion in America (where I live), through cultural and political influence, manages to induce such a negative response (and often, dehumanization) to gay people.

It's not as bad in metropolitan areas where people find it more difficult to view "different people" as the "evil outsiders on whom all our problems may be blamed", but in the rest of the country it certainly seems to be that way to me. Or maybe it's just the south... lol.

As for me? I'd say I'm 'asexual' in the sense that, honestly, I really don't want sex. At all. Weird, I know, but I'm perfectly content. That said, companionship is something all mammals are cursed to need - lol. And for that, I'd give myself the dreaded 'gay' label.
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