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10-08-2009, 05:51 PM
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Andrew, would you consider taking an improv class? It might be a fun and freeing way of practicing getting your unconscious barriers out of the way so that you are freely and joyfully self-expressed, yin, yang, and all! Or even a non-improvisational acting workshop, although improv is probably faster.
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10-11-2009, 11:03 AM
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Hey Andrew, I'm watching an Alex Grey DVD "Art Mind" at the moment, and it's by Sacred Mysteries Productions, they had an advert for a DVD "Awakening the feminine" advertised in the pre-film adverts So maybe if you google "Sacred Mysteries Productions" you might find what you're looking for.. peace.. |
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10-11-2009, 01:13 PM
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Something I am going to do today, and is always very very nice: Take a nice long shower. Shave (i´m not sure you want to go that far, but for me in a female body it makes me feel more feminine). Use sea-salt scrub on my entire body. Wash with a very nice smelling soap. Dry, and put on luxury bodycream. Put on a nice facial mask. Sit in my bathrope in a nice chair or lie in bed reading a great book. Maybe it is just spoiling yourself, but for me that is also very feminine. |
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10-11-2009, 01:17 PM
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Thanks guys  For your interest I thought I'd share something that's been inspiring me. Whenever I read this site, dedicated to spiritual women, I feel a lovely warm gooey feeling inside me Goddess Guidebook | Your Guide for living a Creative & Soulful Goddess life... |
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10-12-2009, 11:32 AM
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when I discovered my psychic abilities and met my higher self, he always appeared to me as a man. Later I learned to connect to my spirit guides and asked them. They confirmed this. You can also ask any Soul Realignment practitioner. I'm still in training, but even I can tell you if you PM me your full name, full name at birth, and birth date and place. I'd like to stress that souls have no gender. They just work predominantly with certain energies, and we humans label these energies as "male" or "female" because we associate them with one gender or another. But all energies are available to everybody and as we evolve we learn how to integrate them all equally anyway. Quote:
I'm totally surrounded with "feminine" men and "masculine" women, which is why I never understood those gender stereotypes and found them very stupid and very limiting. It especially pissed me off (and still does at times) that men are being told they have to be "manly", dominant, goal-oriented, blah, blah, blah... and so many lovely guys feel inadequate and beat themselves up for not matching that stereotype. Which is so unnecessary, because they could be just as strong while using other types of energies. Anyway. I don't want to derail Andrew's thread. Andrew, I'm going to do like you! I want to express my feminity a bit more too. If you know how to do that, please let me know, 'cause I have a hard time with that one! Love to all. xx | ||
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10-12-2009, 05:52 PM
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10-13-2009, 02:51 AM
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I'm an adrogenous female. When I was younger I acted and dressed like a boy, but that came off as weird. Later on I decided to become much more feminine and that felt fake. So now I'm just myself, and I'm a bit of both. I think you should just be who you are. Inside my head I'm not female or male I just am (ya know?) But definately play around with feminity and find what works for you. Pamper and groom yourself nicely. The girliest girls I know are all about looking their best. So manicure your nails, do your eyebrows, I know guys that do this and it makes them look clean not feminine. Their eyebrows are just neatened up and their nails are trimmed and clear polished. Go shopping for clothes that make you feel good and make you look good. In your home, decorate it with an eye for comfort. Your bedroom for instance, buy a new comforter and lots of pillows (or whatever feels right for you). Have a movie night and watch sappy love stories just to see what that does for you. Find something to nurture, a plant a pet but take care of something that's living. Hang out with girls and just be yourself. No matter what, you are who you are, you just have to find your comfort zone. |
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10-13-2009, 01:50 PM
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 ) Not so good at taking care of my looks though. I like looking good, but I'm so perfectionist I often prefer to go unconscious and not look at myself in the mirror than accept the stress of taking up the responsibility. Not that smart, I know I could definitely watch more good chick flicks, I used to be embarrassed that I liked them Bad ones are as bad as crappy action movies though  Last edited by Andrew Gubb; 10-13-2009 at 01:51 PM. Reason: sp | |
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10-20-2009, 06:38 PM
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I thought I'd write something to bump this thread, as it was generating some interesting discussion. So I've decided that my next steps are to start really caring about my appearence! I've always been a bit lacking on that one, one of the aspects of myself which is definitely not feminine. Thing is, I do like to dress well and look good when I overcome my mental blocks and actually do it. Maybe it'll make me feel more feminine too I tried going to a gay bar the other day but there wasn't much going on. I'm still not sure if I'm bisexual, it really confuses me... Last edited by Andrew Gubb; 10-20-2009 at 06:41 PM. |
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10-20-2009, 07:00 PM
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It creates some breathing space where you can just find people you like. With regards to your personal appereance... have you tried the body shop (http://www.thebodyshop-usa.com/)? They are all over the world and have an online store. Against animal testing, great for real women (don´t have sticks figures as models) and for human and woman rights. They have a great line of products for the male skin, which is different from the female skin. They also have great body butters and stuff like that. | |
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10-20-2009, 07:02 PM
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 so, replace 'primping' with 'spending time on one's appearance'.)Andrew, i dunno if you remember one of my first posts on this thread. i shared about how i actually thought i might be a lesbian, so i played out the whole intimate process to see. in my own case, i don't think i'm a lesbian and probably not bisexual either (would still enjoy making out with a woman though). these things can get complicated and confusing... my own take is that our internal sense of masculine and feminine is not necessarily the same as sexual orientation. gender identity can be related to sexual orientation, or it can be more of a spiritual issue. not every tom boy is a lesbian, not every man who loves the theater is gay. see what i mean? being interested in revisiting a greater expression of feminine energy doesn't necessarily make you bisexual or gay. sometimes it's an issue of balance. i have no idea if i'm making any sense.  Last edited by rei; 10-20-2009 at 07:07 PM. | |
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10-20-2009, 11:15 PM
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I was reading over some pages in a good book I own by a rather great healer IMO, by the name of Wayne Perry. The book is called "Sound Medicine", and I thought of you, when I read a section regarding both genders wanting to get more in touch with their feminine or masculine energy through the use of sound, that is, primarily using your own voice to tone sounds that are healing and can remove blocks or transform just about anything. It's a great read, and I think you might find it interesting if you ever stumble on it?
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10-21-2009, 10:06 AM
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I've bookmarked that book. I think I'll buy it next time I have some other books to get, so I can ship them together. Thanks | |
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10-21-2009, 10:14 AM
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But I'm really turned on by the idea of being penetrated and playing the submissive role in sex. I think men would be generally better at helping me do that. What I'd really enjoy when having sex with a man, though, is to imagine that I'm a woman. I wish I had a vagina  Though I have talked with a lady online who likes to do men with strap-ons, so maybe if we meet up... | |
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Oh yeah, there are heaps of people who are tuned into the power of sound vibrations...I've been onto that for at least 15 years now, and knew some women who teach about it. I've also met 2 different people who use the didgereedoo with intent to heal...and I remember an interview I read with John Frusciante from the red hot chilli peppers who said that all the band members felt that they were somehow healing people with their music...sound is very powerful and very healing. It's kinda my special thing Let me know how you find the book if you get it? It also comes with a CD of his toning exercises, which I find very good for cleaning and aligning the chakras. Oh, and if I'm ever in Spain, we might cross paths and swap roles...as ssandra said , there are plenty of peggers out there...we are just as curious about what it would feel like to have a penis as you are with vaginas. Last edited by blossom; 10-21-2009 at 12:17 PM. |
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I'm not sure if it has been suggested yet, but aside from pretending to be a female while having sex, you could try wearing womans panties. I wouldn't mind giving it a go, many men claim them to be more comfortable anyway.
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You ever read Jung? Anima and animus - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia |
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