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You can "enjoy" being evil, and doing bad things. They can be pleasurable. IMO pleasurable does not = happy. Heroin is pleasurable, but it doesn't make anyone happy. A paedophile may feel pleasure when abusing a child but that is not happiness. This is pleasure that is disconnected from the heart and the consequences. Happiness is pleasure that is connected to the heart. Loving and helping someone is pleasurable and connected to the heart. Accomplishing to the best of your ability is pleasurable and connected to the heart. This is happiness. All selfish pleasure is disconnected from the heart, and is therefore not happiness. |
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To be truly evil, harming somebody else on purpose? I cannot to that, not even i n a video game, let alone in real life... I cannot understand how some people get pleasure from it. I just cannot understand.
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See the thread on good and evil, when you realize the subjective nature of good/evil your question will answer itself. People are conditioned to like or dislike certain things based upon the meaning they give the acts, so yes, people can derive happiness from about anything.This ability is actually advantageous to help us endure or even thrive in difficult situations. As for heroin making you happy.....sure, I've seen some things. The problem is the recoil is pretty tough.
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ps this isn´t an attac or something like that, i´m truly curious.
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Have you been through said experiences?? said life? set there themes up?? you don't know if they’re getting pleasure or even happiness from doing these things.. you just don't know.. So why like everyone else in society why do you adopt judgment?? judge everyone and everything.. I say "skating on the sidewalk is evil" I say "skating on the sidewalk is not evil" "What you going to do about it???" "Bring it" Common murder, chaos themes of the past ensue.. Obviously you’re right.. it would be so evil.. to let a family starve.. or kick a puppy.. but guess what?? I have a thing called the "imagination" and it says that I could kick a puppy or starve a family and still be neutral or find a positive perspective.. if you can't find these perspectives within your imagination.. you have some limitation Last edited by themaster; 06-25-2009 at 08:55 PM. | |
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i think people can be born evil...like the bad seed things...i guess people can become evil....i don't even know if any of them can be called ill....to derive pleasure from heinous things...but this is a twisted pleasure...not in anyway related to happiness....and i am always amazed at the attempts to pursue some elevated cosmic acceptance and "understanding" of everything to kind of make it ok...even evil....just my opinion....i don't get it... |
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What if the puppy is about to bite into an electric cord? I kick it just in time to save it's life, but your puppy, on the other hand, bites the cord and is electrocuted for 5 minutes and then dies. Who is evil? And that starving family, I received a letter from some psycho who said they would kill them all if I didn't see to it they lost 100 lbs collectively. Who is evil?
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What if some crazy woman had been dropping babies off a roof, one at a time, and she has 210 left to go,one of those is mine, one is yours, I shoot her. Is it OK for me to feel happy about that? What about you feeling happy about that? After all, I just saved 210 babies.
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Good and evil are flimsy concepts. For anything that could be considered "universally" good or evil there's at least one circumstance where it isn't. Of course, it also depends on how you define them. Defining acts as inherently good or evil is rife with problems. If you define it as the intention to help or harm you've got something much more solid to work with but even that has its problems. For the purpose of this discussion, people who live their lives actively trying to destroy other people are too disturbed to be happy. The exception is when it furthers their goals, or when they think they're improving the world by their actions. Happiness, like good and evil, is a very loose concept that's hard to pin down. It's not a feeling in itself, it's the amalgamation of other feelings. If somebody is satisfied with their lives, if they get out of bed looking forward to what lies ahead, then they're happy. They may not feel the same way you do when you're happy but they're happy. It all comes down to what satisfies the individual. | |
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I understand where you are coming from, I just wanted to point out it's not always real clear cut. Just come up with one specific (and verifiable) example of an "evil" act and we'll discuss it.
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Ok so you bring up two children from birth. You give one of them a stick, and reward him every time he hits his brother with love. Everytime he hits his brother you give him a big hug. That child grows up equating beating his brother with happiness. He believes that is a good thing to do. That is a conditioned sense of good. However there is a difference between our conditioned sense of good and evil (for example at some points in society it was considered EVIL to have sex before marriage) and the truth of the heart. The mind can be conditioned but the heart cannot. If you are truly in touch with your heart, you can go within yourself in each situation and find the truth about whether it is good or evil regardless of how you've been conditioned to think. I speak from personal experience. |
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| I don´t judge the person, but I can judge the action. With regards to the puppy, of course I mean just kicking it for fun, not to save its life. I would still feel bad about it, although I would also know that the alternative would be worse.
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that is what my point is....i never said all killing was evil...to me evil is not just killing, it is torturing, depriving, neglecting...causing pain and harm just for the sake of the reaction or effect it illicits. i also think concepts are evil and what harm they can cause mankind. also someone who does something unthinkable and heinous. examples of all of the above...and we know and we have read...someone poking out a cats eyes, Hitler, Jeffrey Dahmer. i just don't know how much you want to intellectualize something...you can make certain things sound so lofty as to say that there has to be some way to become enlightened by it, and i just can't buy that concept about everything in life.
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