Need Help to solve the Confusion of my Life :confused:

[mal]

hello to all members,

i am really confuse at this time, not able to know what is important in my life either the job or the marriage? by the way i don't have any person in my life thats so depressing ahhhhhhhh what can i do or what i don't do?? either to find a person for the marriage or job? hay anyone one told me what i do?, In my whole life i lost a lot of things and didn't achieve anything yet, i am really a looser, I didn't complete my Engineering and now not have enough money to complete it. Now a days i am trying to do a "Bachlors in Buisness" but its really hard to complete it because its really hard to start and develop the learning habbits again.. SO my life is not only full of confusion but also full of losses. Help me please, tell me how i manage myself??

[Remiel]

Originally Posted by mal

hello to all members,

i am really confuse at this time, not able to know what is important in my life either the job or the marriage? by the way i don't have any person in my life thats so depressing ahhhhhhhh what can i do or what i don't do?? either to find a person for the marriage or job? hay anyone one told me what i do?, In my whole life i lost a lot of things and didn't achieve anything yet, i am really a looser, I didn't complete my Engineering and now not have enough money to complete it. Now a days i am trying to do a "Bachlors in Buisness" but its really hard to complete it because its really hard to start and develop the learning habbits again.. SO my life is not only full of confusion but also full of losses. Help me please, tell me how i manage myself??

What is your purpose in life?

[nhaasch]

Does it have to be a mutually exclusive choice? Could it be that BOTH the job and marriage is important?

Ramiel has a good good question. What is your purpose? What are you here to do in the world and what are you going to need to do to serve that purpose? Find your path and walk it.

Yes this is kind of abstract advice. Still, it really is the most important question.

As for your bachelors you are going after, keep going for it! You can pick up the learning habit again! You are completely capable of that.

[mal]

ya its a question for me as well? what's my purpose? i've ask this question from myself a lot of times in my life, but the answer is still a question mark. In my early age there was a very strong felling in my innerself that i m in this world for a big reason, Nature want to take some valueable work from me but what is it? i m still in search of it. sometimes i get through this feel again but some reality come infront of me. i am really confused not no what to do? in the age of 28 i didn't get any of success in my life, y i am here? just to become a example of loser, i really don't know. searching for the job is day to day harder n harder, and in the time of recession its not possible.

[nhaasch]

Keep asking the question. The answer will come to you. You'll find your purpose.

You have had no sucess in your life? Never? Can you think of a time you felt sucessful? Can you remember a time where something went right?

Now I ask these questions because I know it's easy to get caught up in a particular thought and forget about the rest of our life. I suspect you have been sucessful in some ways of your life. I'm guessing if you look, you could find some examples for yourself.

searching for the job is day to day harder n harder, and in the time of recession its not possible.

Please be very careful with your thinking in this regard. To be honest, I don't know a lot of things about the world and your particular situation. I do know that there are jobs to be found in a recession. I also do know the power of beliefs in that if you hold tightly to this notion that a job can not be found in the recession then you will be blind to notice the jobs that can be found during the recession.

Good luck!