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Old 02-17-2009, 03:40 PM   #1 (permalink)
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I've been vegan for about 8 months now. My parents have always said it was stupid. They have criticised, been upset about it, damned me...

As of this week they have started eating vegan, and are convincing themselves it's the right thing to do for all sorts of reasons.

Amazing.
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Old 02-17-2009, 03:42 PM   #2 (permalink)
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Congrats! I'm certain they'll enjoy the health benefits.
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Wow...I wish I was this lucky with my parents. They won't even let me try it!
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On a similar note, a friend of mine has convinced his daughters stop being vegans and instead eat a well balanced diet, all things in moderation. Actually he had little convincing to do, they found they were gaining weight.
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a friend of mine has convinced his daughters stop being vegans and instead eat a well balanced diet
Being vegan and having a well-balanced diet aren't mutually exclusive
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Wow...I wish I was this lucky with my parents. They won't even let me try it!
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On a similar note, a friend of mine has convinced his daughters stop being vegans and instead eat a well balanced diet, all things in moderation. Actually he had little convincing to do, they found they were gaining weight.
The difference is that I wasn't trying to convince anybody to be vegan. They saw me being happy and energetic on this diet and decided to open their minds to it.
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"Let" you?
I'm sorry, but I'm not quite sure what exactly did you want to say with that.
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I'm sorry, but I'm not quite sure what exactly did you want to say with that.
Sorry, did that come across a bit blunt? I wasn't trying to push your buttons.

What I meant is, how can your parents not let you try out the vegan diet?
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Sorry, did that come across a bit blunt? I wasn't trying to push your buttons.

What I meant is, how can your parents not let you try out the vegan diet?
They said they'll let me when I start earning my own money...
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They said they'll let me when I start earning my own money...
I would "let" my son try being a vegan so long as he prepares his own meals, does his own shopping, and chooses to refrain from eating my bacon. But I would not "let" my son try veganism if that means I have to start buying vegan as well a cooking two different meals for dinner (his vegan meal as well as my animal flesh meal).

So, to clarify, what do you mean your parents won't "let" you? Are they forcing bacon down your throat? Are the refusing you space in the fridge to store your beans and rice? How are they not "letting" you be a vegan?
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If you live with your parents who won't "let" you try veganism, vegetarianism is a compromise you might be interested in. It won't require much in the way of special purchases because you can usually eat around the meat in family meals and still get a healthy, well-rounded diet.

Still, even being a vegan is possible without your parents having to buy and cook anything extra if your family already eats a lot of fruits, veggies and whole foods anyway.

Would your parents get angry if you just took side dishes on your plate and left the meat? They could actually save money by buying less meat.

It may be a bit juvenile for you (don't know your age), but Vegetarianteen.com Online Magazine | Everything you ever wanted to know about veg teen life...by teens for teens. has resources to help you in dealing with your family and their site has lots of other info too.

My point in all of this is that it doesn't have to cost your parents anything extra necessarily for you to become veg*n.
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I would "let" my son try being a vegan so long as he prepares his own meals, does his own shopping, and chooses to refrain from eating my bacon. But I would not "let" my son try veganism if that means I have to start buying vegan as well a cooking two different meals for dinner (his vegan meal as well as my animal flesh meal).

So, to clarify, what do you mean your parents won't "let" you? Are they forcing bacon down your throat? Are the refusing you space in the fridge to store your beans and rice? How are they not "letting" you be a vegan?
They actually let me to be a vegetarian. (Btw, dad doesn't live here anymore)
However, my mom doesn't want to cook vegan meals for me, not because she wouldn't have the time for it like you, but simply because she says that it would make her suffer because she is against it.

So she decided that as long I'm not earning my own money(meaning that I must grow up first), she won't cook vegan foods like she currently cooks vegetarian foods.
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Congratulations! You have just experienced a leadership moment.
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Yep, leading by example. Good man.
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Good for you. The environment thanks you. Just don't let your parents eat too much vegan junk food. A balanced non-vegan diet is better than a lousy vegan one.
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Being vegan and having a well-balanced diet aren't mutually exclusive
Where's the meat? Fish? Eggs?
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ATTENTION: {aspiring_to_clarity} & jaydeschizo

Before you start an argument regarding "balanced diet" and "inclusion of meat/fish/eggs" on said diet, keep in mind two things:

- There is no such thing as standard "balanced diet" that can be applied to everyone. Only "healthy guidelines" and those are too vague and broad to be anything too specific. I.e. it's an healthy guideline to drink water instead of soda and both regimes can follow or not. So It's possible for a vegetarian or a non-vegetarian not having their nutricious needs met.

- It's more than likely jaydeschizo hasn't tried a 30 day trial regime without touching meat/fish/eggs that mets jaydeschizo specific needs, likewise, more than likely {aspiring_to_clarity} hasn't tried a 30 day trial regime eating meat/fish/eggs that mets {aspiring_to_clarity}'s needs and following "healthy guidelines"

SO PLEASE! Be courteous, since this is a personal development foruns the vegetarian guidelines can be considered house rules so it's easy to bash non-vegetarians and forgetting the principles of love and oneness.
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