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I'm just out of college, so most of my donations have been material. My dear mother got worried the first time I realized how much useless stuff I had, and donated about 50 pounds of stuff to Goodwill--clothes I didn't wear, books I'd never read again, extraneous camping gear, etc.. I've done that about ten times since then, to where now I really feel like I'm keeping only the stuff really important to me, and consequently keeping my life very simple and focused. If I decide to stay vegan at the end of its 30-day trial, I'll get rid of my leather stuff.
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| Junior Member Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: Canterbury, England
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I'm a final year student at university so unfortunately can't donate as much as I'd like to. I do, however, have a monthly direct debit to charity of £15 a month and, whenever I come into some extra, unexpected or manifested money, I try to tithe 10%, usually into http://www.kiva.org (fantastic microfinancing organisation - if you haven't heard of them, go take a look!). I'll be graduating next summer and already have a grad job lined up, so hopefully can start to give back a little more then. |
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I can't afford to donate anything at the moment. I'm not sure if I would donate if I could afford to though, I worry about what the money is really used for. I don't want to fund annoying television adverts that make people feel guilty. I would rather give my money directly to someone who needs it, that way I would know that they actually received it. |
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With public radio memberships, our favorite charities and the supplies & computer programs we buy for my wife's classroom, I'd say 10%.
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| Senior Member Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: Bielefeld, Germany
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| Add me here. I donate everything I don't need anymore (at least if it's not fallen to dust...) for charity. That's books, clothes, and many other stuff.
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I think that this is a really interesting question, Kevin. It's not so much putting a number to the amount that one "should" donate, but the realization of why one donates and how much and to whom and why. I donate about $10 to my college a year (this is my second year out) and I'd say about $5 dollars to the hairdresser each time I go, and about $10 dollars over the course of year to panhandlers on the train and people in the street. I also do clothing and game donations to thrift stores, but I personally don't consider that donating because I don't really feel all that generous about giving stuff away, when it's stuff that I don't even want anymore. I'm working on building wealth, but I'm working as a intern in a nature center and have got loans and debt, etc. I don't really have any savings. But that's not really an excuse if I really want to donate. I think I could do more if I made it more of a priority. I think the reason I don't is because a) I'm too wrapped up in my own life and b) no one cause draws me particularly. Interesting question. Something I can think about as I draw my budget. Thanks, Kevin. |
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Add me to the 'donates material goods' list. I gave three bags of stuff last week, in fact. We very much live by the one in-one out rule, so I have a perpetual Goodwill bag |
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I don't have a stable job and at this point, only have 12 euros in my account... I donate time: I religiously click every day on Hungersite, breastcancersite, childhealthsite, rainforestsite, and childliteracy site. It's what I can do at this time. Some day, I hope I can do more.
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Hi Kev I donate about USD $30 per month to UNICEF as a global parent. I know its not much but I think that if everyone on an income in western society were to donate $30 per month, the world would be a much better place today!
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I donate about 2- $300 a year on a monthly recurring donation. I donate to animal rights groups. I was also thinking of starting to donate to the "10 dollar a month club". It would be cool to deduct it from my taxes, but every accountant I have ever had told me that only works is you are rich and donate a TON of cash. |
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For some time I was giving to organizations that made donating convenient. They would send nice letters and always provide a tax receipt. After some time I realized most of that money was going to the business that was sending the letters, not the firefighters, nor the police officers. Lesson Learned. Now I give with more effort and thought. I made a list of issues that where important to me then I began to seek out organizations that were helping in those areas. Something like this: 1. My Church 2. Nobel Prize Winners 3. Food, Shelter, Clothes, Medicine 4. Cultural Understanding and Tolerance. 5. Nature 6. Music, Art, Science, and Sport. 7. Donation Opportunities of Chance. I’ve been doing this for a couple of years now. It works for me. |
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I´m currently not donating. There is something much closer where I can make a difference. I´m saving 50€ each month so a friend of mine can get a drivers license somewhen. I recently asked other friends to take part in this project, so I hope we will have enough money at her next birthday. That may sound small, but because of her circumstances she could never afford that on her own and it will mean very much to her. |
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I donate material goods to charity- an old car that doesn't run, clothes, used but still 'usable' building materials, etc. I also give stuff away on freecycle from time to time. Once my income is larger than my output, I will probably donate to a Yoga center that I attend from time to time.
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zero If I ever get rich enough I will start a network for people left alone and those who suffer from mental illness.
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10% of what I make, and I've just pledged 20% of whatever I make from my blog. If you haven't read The Singer Solution to World Poverty, that was what pushed me to finally start giving. If you don't feel like reading it (it's a good read, essential even), here's the gist of it in a thought game: Quote:
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Now that I have a salary I have seriously considered giving to charity (to get out of this scarcity mindset and get in the spirit of generosity) Right now I'm still struggling with what charity to give for. Does anyone know of donations to corporations that create jobs in poor countries (vs 'only' providing food and water)? About Peter Singer: Having read most of his work a few years ago, I'd have to agree his logic is infallible. Upon reflection though, what he says profoundly goes against human nature. It shouldn't matter whether I save my friend or a kid in Africa... but it DOES matter. We evolved to care about those around us... not those hundreds of miles away. His Utilitarian ethic, the way I see it, has the potential to create vast individual unhappiness. The truly utilitarian thing to do would be to spend 24h a day thinking about how to maximize your income (whether or not you like your job) so that you can give 90% of it to charity while subsisting on the rest. |
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Interesting thoughts, Zulu! I don't know if we can take his thoughts to that extreme, but the central idea that moved me was that if we could do something to help someone worse off in the world, then ethically we cannot not do that thing. Of course, if I were to donate too much of what I make, I'd fast becoming unable to do anything. But I take heart in the knowledge that a Starbucks to me could mean a lot more to someone else, so I choose to give that away. You can check out Charity Navigator - America's Largest Charity Evaluator and Welcome to Give.org, they both review charities.
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The subject of donating money often makes me anxious in the same way being asked for money by a panhandler does. It's not at all that I don't want to part with the money. I'd be glad to part with a portion of my money if it was actually doing what the solicitor purported it would be doing. But I'm jaded about that. I fear that so much of donated money goes to overhead and/or skimming, that I just don't know who to trust much of the time. Lately the only "causes" I trust are local ones that I have seen in action: the local humane society, the symphony orchestra, a storefront theater we like to go to, a neighbor kid's cub scout troop. I feel bad turning down organizations who call for donations to help kids with cancer and all that, but I just don't trust that the money is going where they say. We don't have a LOT of money to spare, and I consider some of our purchases giving money to causes. I shop at a local food coop, and I consider money spent on organic foods, natural cleaners, recycled goods one way of "donating" in a sense. If I can help ethical businesses with environmentally and socially sound practices by buying their products, I'm helping them compete with all of the corporate polluters out there that environmental organizations need donations to help clean up after/ pressure politicians to hold accountable. Maybe that's my way of participating. Or maybe that's my justification to my conscience. Not sure. |
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While I agreed that would be the best course, we all give what we can. Me by donating to a cause, and you supporting ethical companies
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My husband and I sponsor two little girls through World Vision, $78 a month so $936 AUD a year (roughly $718 USD). We've been doing this for a few years and the weird thing is, no matter how tight money gets sometimes, there's always enough to keep paying that $78 a month and we've never had to go without to do it. It almost feels like the universe is continually replenishing our income so we can keep giving. |
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I give my time, hours, days, weeks, years to a valid cause: making the world a better place. I don't need to donate to a charity or a cause to make my charity validated. I help people who need it and that's that. Don't get so obsessed with dollar amounts. Giving time is ten to one hundred times more valuable than money. Money is easy. Send a check. Actually volunteering is very challenging. So that's my take on donating.
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