Blueprint Decoded Appreciation Thread

[Fullcrum]

Woooo!

I would hesitate to call this the best product on self-development of all time, but it's definitely the best I've ever seen. The Blueprint Decoded is about 20 hrs long of Tyler Durden (Owen Cook) from Real Social Dynamics. Here, he talks about basically living your life on the next level. A lot of it is in the context of picking up girls, and that's the advertised part of the program, but it's really much deeper than that. He takes such ideas as:

• Social Conditioning
• Masculine and Feminine Polarity
• Emotional State
• Authenticity, Self-esteem, and ego
• Eckhart Tolle's different ideas
• Rationalization (this was actually one of my favorite parts)
• Internalizing a new reality
• And of course, being social.

and merges them into a coherent over-arching picture that points directly at living life in abundance and fulfillment. It's really a fresh perspective; probably one most of you are not familiar with. There much more stuff than what's in the list. He's also an amazing speaker. It gets better every day.

The only person I could say is more pumped than him is Tony Robbins, and that's probably due more to his experience. Also, I actually prefer Tyler's speaking style: he's much more focused than Tony I find. It's really quite amazing. I highly recommend you look into it, EVEN if you're not looking to pick up women; even if you're a woman. In fact, I would gladly show this to my mother (and have some parts which have helped us).

Here's a link with a short clip, made by a fan:
YouTube - Tyler Durden on bad emotions and taking action Tyler on bad emotions. It's from day 2.

Here are some of the official previews:
YouTube - The Blueprint Decoded - Day 1 Preview

YouTube - The Blueprint Decoded - Day 2 Preview

YouTube - The Blueprint Decoded - Day 4 Preview

YouTube - The Blueprint Decoded - Day 3 Preview

Unlike a lot of other stuff I've seen, this is not a "low consciousness" work. It does not say "this is it" and enhance your ego like "this is the be all and end all, and I have watched it, and other people haven't, and therefore I feel superior and can be confident" type thing. It "points" to a higher level of consciousness. The program is not an end; it's more like a new beginning. I hope you guys gain as much value from this as I have!

[Hyperchiller]

Yup it is an awesome program. Tim's speech in RSD Transformations is really great too. All the theory you need for pickup is in Transformations and Blueprint I think. The rest is applying.

I've been through the Blueprint twice. Here is my 'summary' of the good points.

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The number one rule: Have fun.

Entertain yourself - use self-amusement

It's all in your head

Be the sex worthy guy

Most sticking points auto-correct when you go out and approach and be social.

The only criterion of a good night: A good night is any night when you gain more reference experiences.

Tactics are a shell over your identity.

Your ego is also a shell over your true core self. (deeper)

Value is a magnet

OWN YOURSELF. LIVE UP TO YOUR STANDARDS.

Who you are is always broadcasting out. THE SELF IS ALWAYS COMING THROUGH.

Outside your head symptoms:
Enjoying yourself
acting in your moment
letting your real personality come out
saying what's on your mind
being unaffected from how other people react
being detached from the outcome from any one particular interaction
taking things as they come!
being fully present to what's going on around you
expecting that everyone is your friend

Two qualities you want to cultivate:
Non resistance - acceptance
Right action

Stay with social tension and avoid going into your head.

Be UNREACTIVE BUT EXPRESSIVE AND UNSTIFLED

BE SELF-POSSESSED

Any type of superficial nonsense - any limitation - money, physical limitations, racial background is completely arbitrary - IT'S NO BIG DEAL - how big a deal it is ENTIRELY UP TO YOU.
Hoobie: WHY SHOULD I PUT MORE LIMITATIONS ON ME when other people already are?

DO YOU LIKE YOURSELF?
WILL OTHER PEOPLE ENJOY BEING WITH YOU?

Coming into Power
NOT BEING STUCK IN YOUR HEAD, NOT SHELTERING YOURSELF IN EXISTING ASSUMPTIONS AND BELIEFS AND BE IN THE MOMENT.


Have these Beliefs:
WHAT YOU SAY IS VALUABLE PURELY BECAUSE IT COMES FROM YOU.
WHAT YOU HAVE TO SAY IS INTERESTING NOT BECAUSE OF THE CONTENT BUT BECAUSE IT'S BECAUSE YOU FIND IT INTERESTING.


4 Pillars of Reality

Who you are.
What your values are.
Personal Boundaries
How people should act around you?


Only three thoughts are allowed when approaching:
OH LET'S SEE IF SHE'S COOL
LET'S EXPAND OUT THIS PARTY
LET'S ASK HER A QUESTION

CORE CONFIDENCE + STRONG REALITY+ ACTING THROUGH YOUR OWN INTENTIONS + MASCULINE POLARITY + BEING IN THE PRESENT MOMENT = WALKING THROUGH THE WORLD WITH EASE.

If you act with 100% belief then whatever you are doing will work.

Two bearings to trust:
1. GIRLS CAN LIKE YOU JUST FOR YOU. Being in the moment. Just allowing.
2. BELIEF THAT AND TOTAL INTERNALISATION THAT SEX IS A NATURAL CONSEQUENCE OF CHEMISTRY AND INEVITABILITY

Providing value: Being centered is providing value. Having masculine polarity around a girl is providing value. Girls in general enjoy sex more than men, so having sex is also providing value.
Taking value: Self seeking in other people's responses to you.

DRAW STATE FROM WITHIN. A man draws state from within. A woman draws state from the environment.

THE SWAGGER - SING THE UNSTIFLED SONG.
Unstifle yourself with voice exercises.
Project your voice from the diaphragm.

Masculine polarity
It is total trust in your faculties:
ACTING ONLY THROUGH YOUR OWN INTENTIONS.
BEING ENTIRELY UNCONTROLLABLE AND ABOVE MANIPULATION
DICTATING YOUR REALITY AROUND YOU RATHER THAN BEING AFFECTED BY IT
BEING IN THE MOMENT AND WALKING THROUGH THE WORLD WITH EASE
HAVING ABSOLUTELY NO INTIMIDATION OF THE GIRL OR THE WORLD WHATSOEVER
TAPPING INTO THE ENERGY INSIDE YOU NOT AROUND YOU AS THE SOURCE OF YOUR MOOD.
FEELING NO SPIKES OR LOW-ESTEEM FROM GIRLS REJECTING YOU - YOU MIGHT LOSE ATTRACTION BUT IT SHOULD NOT AFFECT YOUR SENSE OF WHO YOU ARE.

Tolle:
The happiness payoff you get from the result is never as good as the doing.
HAPPINESS IS ALL THE SAME - The doing should make you happy.
Do not project your happiness into the future - the Now is all there ever is.

When you are not in the moment:
Observe/stalk yourself. Become self-possessed.
Be highly alert and aware.
Feel your inner body, take rhythmic conscious deep breaths. Breathe diaphragmatically.

The ego creates a black hole of neediness. It needs recognition and is constantly trying to strengthen the self. The ego is based on separation. It wants to be right all the time, to stand out to reinforce the self among the whole.
Be aware of ego, then eventually go beyond it.
YOU HAVE TO BE ABLE TO LAUGH AT YOURSELF AND NOT TAKE YOUR 'PUA' IDENTITY SERIOUSLY.

*Authenticity*:
Have integrity. Love yourself. Have compassion. Communicate from your higher selves. People will open up to you.

[Hyperchiller]

Also picking up girls only enhances your life - it should not define it. So having a balanced and a life that you love - and being fulfilled already in yourself is sort of a prerequisite for being ultra successful in this area of life. Blueprint is all about deep identity level change so by being a better person you are offering the world more value and you're in a better position to be in a long term relationship.

The Blueprint emphasizes that the intention for someone on this path is to reach high self esteem and core confidence, which will not only help you in this area but life in general.

[Jamie]

Sounds very good actually, thanks for posting guys.

I haven't gone through the program yet, but I like that it covers a wide range of topics, and imagine people will derive benefit from some topics more than others.

The Blueprint emphasizes that the intention for someone on this path is to reach high self esteem and core confidence, which will not only help you in this area but life in general.

I'm getting the impression that it emphasizes a diminishment of the ego, and the bring forth of a persons' true core self, coming from that place. I know we all have that within us, and it's very powerful and authentic, but that space, that essense, our ego kinda derails it at every opportunity (that's how I see it at least). So I really like that this is no so much an ego (enhancing) based system.

Eckhart Tolle, I find really cool too. You mentioned him in your comments, is there any cross over there, simularities between this and Eckharts' material?

Thanks once again for posting this. Would also be interested to hear any 'before and after' stories, how it's changed peoples' lives; just curios..

[Hyperchiller]

Originally Posted by Jamie

Sounds very good actually, thanks for posting guys.

I'm getting the impression that it emphasizes a diminishment of the ego, and the bring forth of a persons' true core self, coming from that place. I know we all have that within us, and it's very powerful and authentic, but that space, that essense, our ego kinda derails it at every opportunity (that's how I see it at least). So I really like that this is no so much an ego (enhancing) based system.

Eckhart Tolle, I find really cool too. You mentioned him in your comments, is there any cross over there, simularities between this and Eckharts' material?

Thanks once again for posting this. Would also be interested to hear any 'before and after' stories, how it's changed peoples' lives; just curios..

Tyler states that there is a journey to be made from a level of ego and neediness to self-esteem and authenticity. Tyler made his own conclusions about all this stuff from his own personal transformation and experiences. He then read Tolle and discovered that what Tolle was saying is consistent to what he experienced. You will realize that the RSD community loves Tolle.

And yes Tolle is great I know what you are talking about when you are talking about the diminishment of ego. I've been listening to Tolle material too and it's good stuff. Especially the stuff about being in the inner body.

I've only recently gone through this, but it's given me a good foundation to become successful in this life area.

[ken nubo]

Ya, Tyler is the man. I read his blog sometimes, it's always filled with interesting stuff.

I like how he goes into natural game and breaks off from the "pick up artist routines" and other PUA gimmicks

The Blue Print is pretty cool, I got my hands on the DVDs. Also, I watched The Jeffy Show. 'tis really funny stuff, ha ha.

[Fullcrum]

I wish some general PD people would comment on the vids I posted - not just people in the "community."

That's why I posted this here - so more people could see it. I really do believe that it works.

[Smarky]

It's good stuff. I've started thinking about how there is an awful lot of bull in PD. It's all airy fairy stuff, in some cases it's all rather idealogical and good sounding but lacking in substance, I think it's a trap that we can fall for. Most of the success guru's are only successful at one thing, selling you details of how to be successful.

I just see the kinda people I look up too looking kinda puzzled if you mentioned half of the stuff in PD to them. And after all it is those kinda results I am interested in, but it seems half the techniques and ideas of a lot of PD are irrelevant to them.

Some of the stuff presented by the community you speak off is right on I think, it's much closer to what i'm looking for than normal PD (If you take the pick up part out of it). Because it's less bull, more straight up. I like it!

[thirial]

just to stimulate some debate in this thread:

how does everyone get into state and stay in state? i'm very analytical and overthink a lot so i've struggled with this over the years but i'm definitely getting there. When i get ready to go out i start with good club music to get me in the mood and then when i catch a train into the city i try and make eye contact and smile with people who cross my path while walking with a swagger, if they're receptive it boosts my state if they're not it increases my indifference. I also replay in my imagination good memories where i have been in the flow when out (these are my bearings) which makes me feel great inside and gives me absolute faith and trust in myself that i will be able to just go with the flow.

my problem is over analysing how im going during the night which makes me retreat into my head rather than just being me and completely in the moment...any suggestions?

[Jamie]

Kinda related to that Thirial ..

I'm guessing that people (and women) respond a lot more to primal things, your energy or 'vibe', a lot more than they do say, intellectual arguments or reasoning etc. It's like a level of core humanity, rather than intellectualism? Is that right, guys?

How then to get out of our heads, and in to, fun, cheeky, monkey mode.

[Corvette]

Originally Posted by Fullcrum

Woooo!

I would hesitate to call this the best product on self-development of all time, but it's definitely the best I've ever seen.

It's the best THING I've seen full-stop.

How have your field results improved since watching the programme? Also, are you on any of the other newsgroups?

[Corvette]

Originally Posted by thirial

just to stimulate some debate in this thread:

how does everyone get into state and stay in state? i'm very analytical and overthink a lot so i've struggled with this over the years but i'm definitely getting there.

I am a highly analytical, intelligent guy as well and I will tell you pretty much the ONLY method I use to get into state now on a regular basis.

Fry your brain with 6 hours' work doing something you love. Better if these are personal projects for furthering your own goals.

You head out into field and you have no mental clutter (it has been used up on the projects) and you are also pumped up from working on your own stuff.

It has a meditative quality with the benefit that you are also getting stuff done at the same time.

[JustBe]

Originally Posted by thirial

just to stimulate some debate in this thread:

how does everyone get into state and stay in state? i'm very analytical and overthink a lot so i've struggled with this over the years but i'm definitely getting there. When i get ready to go out i start with good club music to get me in the mood and then when i catch a train into the city i try and make eye contact and smile with people who cross my path while walking with a swagger, if they're receptive it boosts my state if they're not it increases my indifference. I also replay in my imagination good memories where i have been in the flow when out (these are my bearings) which makes me feel great inside and gives me absolute faith and trust in myself that i will be able to just go with the flow.

my problem is over analysing how im going during the night which makes me retreat into my head rather than just being me and completely in the moment...any suggestions?

Talk immidiately to strangers who are easy to approach. Can be one funny sentence to begin with. It sets the tone for the evening and it will most likely escalate..

Be a bit more enthousiastic then they are, say something cocky and funny/banter and you have always succes.

[Fullcrum]

Corvette, that's pretty good - I'm gonna try that brain-fry on something I love before going out. I can see how that would work.

[uberinquisitive]

So, can someone tell me why a girl like me should buy these DVDs?

What can I get from these expensive DVDs that I can't get from Tolle books, or Oprah webinars with Tolle?

[Brutha]

Originally Posted by uberinquisitive

So, can someone tell me why a girl like me should buy these DVDs?

What can I get from these expensive DVDs that I can't get from Tolle books, or Oprah webinars with Tolle?

If you want just the message you can also read Tylers book with the same title: Amazon.com: The Blueprint: Owen Cook: Books
A DVD is another medium that unfortunatly is more expensive than a book.

Contentwise it's from a materalistic perspective and also about social interactions. Especially if you come from a more sceptical mindset it might be a better perspective than Tolles (Tolles isn't that accessable for sceptics).

[Hyperchiller]

Originally Posted by Fullcrum

I wish some general PD people would comment on the vids I posted - not just people in the "community."

That's why I posted this here - so more people could see it. I really do believe that it works.

I was mainly a general PD guy if you can call someone that not too long ago. I've been in general PD for way too long. I only just got into the community and have taken action two months ago. But this stuff in this program is hardcore. Hardcore social dynamics that provides an analytical and holistic view of inner game aspects and true PD - that's why Tolle was introduced. It's a very lucid breakdown of a lot of stuff.

I mean one of the reasons I am into this stuff is to stretch my comfort zone and build core confidence. Approaching random girls can be scary - as the fear of humiliation and fear of rejection exist. And this is the context of the 'battle'. Confidence that is useful for life in general is built around this context.

[ProjectX]

For a newbie, what other Real Social Dynamics and PUA materials do you recommend? I have some of Mystery's and David DeAngelo's stuff but i haven't looked at those yet.

[Fullcrum]

I've found only RSD's stuff comes from a true abundance mentality that facilitates living the best life, not living a social life to the exclusion of all else.

I loved Transformations and Jeffy Show.

Check out Tim's blog and video blog:

Real Social Dynamics - Natural Tim

Flawless Natural Video Blog

Awesome simple stuff there, no complex formulae or anything.

[Hyperchiller]

RSD Transformations and Jeffy Show.

Jeffy recommended the following transition through the programs:

Blueprint -> Foundations -> Jeffy show -> Transformations

I've listened to a bit of foundations and it's OK. I don't think it's necessary if you stick with going out and being social as a goal. Transformations is last because it's just so damn potent.

[Fullcrum]

I personally think Foundations is out-dated, at least for the natural personalities we're trying to cultivate.

Just my opinion though, it's got some great mindsets for beginners.

[Hyperchiller]

Originally Posted by Fullcrum

I personally think Foundations is out-dated, at least for the natural personalities we're trying to cultivate.

Just my opinion though, it's got some great mindsets for beginners.

I haven't listened to the whole thing but that's what my friend said too. I mean Foundations was their first program and Blueprint is their most recent so I'd say there would be a bit of a difference.

Blueprint and Transformations are the only ones that you need in terms of theory. The rest of the time I believe should be devoted to inner work and application which includes:

1. working out your goals and going through the habit of working out what you want - referring to Steve's Feeling Blessed post.
2. working on your personality and character traits through being responsible human being etc - (which in turn with being purposeful and having goals will make you naturally attractive - you won't be so try hard when you want to be in a leading frame)
3. work out what you like in a woman and how to be in alignment with her terms of consciousness, character and direction in life
4. working on loving yourself, how you can improve your self-confidence and self-esteem, self image, self-concept and positive self-talk
5. going out and being social which in turn will get you better social calibration

All of this I am currently working on myself

[ProjectX]

Originally Posted by Hyperchiller

RSD Transformations and Jeffy Show.

Jeffy recommended the following transition through the programs:

Blueprint -> Foundations -> Jeffy show -> Transformations

I've listened to a bit of foundations and it's OK. I don't think it's necessary if you stick with going out and being social as a goal. Transformations is last because it's just so damn potent.

Do they all have DVD seminars or only some of the?

[Hyperchiller]

Originally Posted by ProjectX

Do they all have DVD seminars or only some of the?

They were all seminars or what Tyler calls 'superconferences' that have been turned into both videos and audio programs.

[ProjectX]

Originally Posted by Hyperchiller

They were all seminars or what Tyler calls 'superconferences' that have been turned into both videos and audio programs.

What do you think are the main differences between mystery method, David DeAngelo and RSD?

Also do you have good videos on Kino and body language?

[Brutha]

Also do you have good videos on Kino and body language?

There are two approaches to solving problems.

1) Getting the mindset and the strategy right
2) Micromanaging every details and developing the right tactics for every detail.

That question implies that you are looking on how to micromanage your body language.
The blueprint focuses on 1).

If you look at Mystery, himselves admits that he still has approach anxiety. Someone like Tim or Tyler on the other hand hasn't because those RSD guy don't come from frame where they have lower value than the girl to begin with.
Mystery focuses on scripts that allow you to focus on techniques to have something concrete to do that increases attraction.
The blueprint on the other hand focuses more on a state of mind that gives you freedom and a huge variety of ways to act.

[TheKarmicLaws]

Canned routines, Lines and ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥ mumbo jumbo tricks will not work because they're merely surrepticious attempts to ACT as if you give a ♥♥♥♥♥ about yourself.

The ONLY issue I have with it is Tyler is so fvcking fastpaced. He talks like a woman with sporadic nuances and a quick tongue.

BUT.

He knows his ♥♥♥♥♥. Not like that godawful Deangelo who reads from his laptop and teleprompter/Q-cards. He obviously doesn't practice what he preaches.

Tyler, on the other hand, is extremely consistent in his delivery.

I've ripped the audio to listen to it on my Zen and decompressed the torrents to fit on 2 double sided dvd-9's.

It's good stuff but like everything else, you take what you can and mold it to fit your reality and discard the rest.

[supertom]

Old topic, but definite recommend, check it out, esp for guys here. Seriously the emotional mastery section would be empty if everyone saw it. Your neo

You don't even have to buy it hint hint

[Plato]

Are you suggesting stealing, Thomas. What would your mother say.

[Fullcrum]

I always loved Tyler's humanist psychology. He's probably shaped my views more than any other person on what it means to live life.

That's probably because I found him relatively early in my life.

Everytime I watch it I learn more. Just earlier this week I rewatched the first 7 videos. Awesome, just awesome. I learned a lot more.

Like psychic attunement, the BP helps you enter the right state of mind, to remind you and give pointers to what you really want.

KarmicLaw, just imagine how long it'd be if Tyler spoke slower. Haha.

About DeAngelo, I have seen some of his stuff and never liked it. He feels like some seedy internet marketer. Recently on a business call he shared that he doesn't really go out anymore because he has a girlfriend (this is fine), and so is "kinda rusty", yet he still sells his archaic 2005 products. I can't stand trying to learn from people who do not practice what they preach.