I know its easy for you to get down about your traffic on your blog or the lack of success so far..but just remember everyone started somewhere and this is what we all need to accept..The big guys now in blogging or "webbing" (im not sure if thats a word lol) where once the small guys and they once were in same position as you..but what they did was kept at what they loved and now look at them!
Use the
Way back machine and see what your favorite top blog/website looked like in the begining..You will notice that at first they probably didn't have the greatest design or articles and the site probably looks totally different by now! But that initial start transformed a few ideas to a whole empire. Have a fine understanding that things get better as you go as long as you stick with it..
The true good things in life take time to create! This should be a huge motivater for any of you, it is for me!