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Old 08-13-2007, 05:47 AM
Erock Erock is offline
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Man unless you want a female friend (which is fine, I need to get a few myself since I just moved) you have to build sexual tension. In and out, back and forth, I like you, I hate you, touch her, back off, tease her, compliment her, tell her about yourself, be evasive, kiss her, stop and move away, 2 steps forward, one step back.

You know that awkward good feeling you have when you are talking to a girl and you both know that you like each other? That's the sexual tension I'm talking about. This stuff isn't that hard if you just do whatever it takes to maintain and amplify that feeling. All that stuff I said above is just the physical aspects of amplifying that feeling. If you focus on building sexual tension, escalation will take care of itself. Most guys focus on escalation, and because of this, they never get anywhere. Girls can sense where your focus lies, and they will be closed and unreceptive if they think you are focused on escalation.

In the whole dating/seduction game there is a lot of magic that just can't be described on forums. You gotta get out there and learn for yourself. Just remember that it can and should be easy.

Erock
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