For the record, I rarely respond to your posts because they are structured in a weird way and your English seems clunky and hard to read. It has nothing to do with any personal feeling I have toward you...I think it's great that you contribute here when you've got so much going on in real life.
Just thought I'd mention that because I imagine that I'm not the only one who glides by you're posts because they are tough to read.
to everybody else:
why is there such a negative vibe towards daycare? My kids go to daycare and they absolutely love it because they get to hang out and play with their friends. Judge the experience based on how your kids react to it and not how some judgmental people perceive it. It's your choice...ALWAYS.