Originally Posted by pyrogen
I am not bothering with LOAing small change things anymore. They don't really lead to growth.
This may be because small change things are not what you 'truly' desire. in order to know if you truly desire something you must question 'why' you want it. i will give an example to explain...
"i want $500"
"so that i can buy a plane ticket to France"
"so that i can be with my lover that lives there"
"because i love this person and want to be with them"
"because being with this person makes me feel good"
"it just does"
Basically, when you reach the point where your reason why, is to do with feeling good in some way, you have now found what you 'truly' desire.