Originally Posted by ZephyrusX
that you feel abandoned by your daughter and
feel like you are not making the connections that you want on these forums.
For what it is worth, I like seeing you post here.
Well you see, there are facts
, & there are feelings
; & they are not the same.
FACTs: My daughter has abandoned me, & 99% of people here don't respond to me, even when I Positively-encouraged them. Life is not fair. People are selfish.
That she abandoned me tho, no less for the dysfunctional reason she did,
was Doubly painful for me to bear. But
then, she knows that
. - and guess what: Ever since she wrote that letter, and
said what she said in June, she has had NO PEACE inside. -
So who, in the final analysis, is she really hurting with her folly, but her own self.
And the strangest thing is: Formerly, kiddo always lived as a parent's greatest JOY
: she lived as loving as I,
she lived as happy as I, she lived as healthy as I, she lived as giving as I; we were like 2 birdies of the SAME feather.
I need to go on, as inevitably I always have, thru some of the most
gut-wrenching experiences humans suffer, at the hands of sick people. - Yet
I always come back, Smiling. How? Well, you see, I FORGIVE
I forgive because when you think of it, this is the only course that makes sense. And
in the final analysis, I think there might be Reconciliation
, in which kiddo will realize her folly, and
we will once again be the kind of (soul
friends) we once shared in each others life...
Zephy Thanks for kind
sentiments - & if you wanna help:
Share... in my *Ice-skating* thread,
it means the world
now to me, &
drag some others over, who also will egg me on... the
same way daughter & I shared, as GOOD friends...