Originally Posted by sk8joyful
she said on the phone: "I hope you find someone to help you Mom, cause it's not gonna be me"
And as I always tell her: "Sweetie, I love you with every fiber of my soul, & heart. And I forgive you, and I wish for you ALL the joy your heart can hold, and more
That just sounds so incredibly cold.
Do you think maybe she blames you for what happened with her father? Unless there is something you're not telling us about how you behaved towards her while raising her, there just doesn't seem to be any reason for this?
I guess it may come back to individuals though. Just because you were that devoted to her and would camp next to her in hospital, does not mean she is obliged to do the same for you, though it would be the nicer thing to do, no matter how much that may not make sense in the whole "treat other the way you want to be treated" sense.
Does she at least call and see how you are, now that you are in this situation with the threat of homelessness and illness?