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Originally Posted by momo3bur  I'm very sorry you've had to go through this.
I can't speak for your situation, but most of the families I know personally
would never have completely abandoned their parents, including my own grandfather:
we pay nearly $2000 a month just for his room
in a nice retirement village close to one of his daughters. |
Thank you for at least some kind words, towards me.
And thank you for all that you are doing, for your (abusive) Grandpa.
Tho I would NEVER accept such help; because -
1. I won't be a 'burden' on anyone.
2. I will never agree to live in an "institution".
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Originally Posted by momo3bur I'm really sorry about what you're going through
and
the only thing I would recommend is finding out
WHY your daughter feels this way, and listen to what she has to say. |
It's very simple: After I discovered, in absolute
horror, that her father was a pedophile, I filed for divorce immediately.
She was tiny still, and I took her to a SAFE place, & as I said above she in freedom & safety, got to experience & experiment with her other homeschooled peers, life's fun
pleasures, and all the things we enjoyed...
together.
After she graduated college as a teen, she married her Sweetie, & at age 20 she already ran her own Business, they had bought a brand new home, and she was expecting...
when
she sent me THE letter: "Mom, I'm sorry you got stuck with a lousy human, but I got a good one. And I want my kids to have
both grandparents together. So unless you agree to become Good-friends with dad, you will NEVER get to see your grandkids, and should something happen to you, you can not come here, to recover. I love you mom, you are the best. And life is not fair.
Her 1st. child is now 3, and I have never seen them. And she moved all they way across the country.