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Originally Posted by russianrocket  Guilt.
I had the same guilt trip by my parents, and I hated it.
Always telling me that all the work they put into me,
means I should take care of them when they get old. |
Curiously,
since you don't even know me, as a precious individual,
let alone as a precious parent; how could you
possibly state, that your parents, and I, are the
SAME ??
You couldn't wait to post that, your HATE for your own parents, that is.
On the internet, you are free to spew your hate, and get away with it.
Because tho you were not telling this to YOUR OWN parents, but
another parent, terribly hurt inside, who frankly
you also don't give a damn about, whether I die, or I yet live.
And while I don't personally know your parents,
I do know me intimately 
as a Beloved human child of God, as a fun-loving girl,
as a very loving, & nurturing mommy, as a compassionate nurse for 40 years, as a passionate humanitarian, as a fun-loving iceskater, etc. & so forth.
And as a parent who, never once, mentioned to her
child: "You owe me, in case I need it". Never once.
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Originally Posted by russianrocket You chose to create a child. |
True. I did. I wanted, & prayed for, & planned, & yearned
for this precious
daughter for 17 years, before she came.
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Originally Posted by russianrocket "I deserve respect and for you to take care of me".
I'm sorry, but it doesn't work like that.
You're child didn't abandon you.
They went on to have their own life. Isn't that why you raised her? |
True,
I empowered her with my demonstrated... positively successful Attitudes, Behaviors, Courage, Determination, Excellence, Forgiveness, Goodness, Health, Independence, Joyfulness, Kindness, Love, Prayerfulness etc. etc. that she too would need to Succeed in her own family, raising her own children,
as she now is with her own 2 precious daughters.
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Originally Posted by russianrocket I don't understand
this whole concept of having a child to take care of
so that you have someone to take care of you, or so that they have someone to love and love them back.
It happens all over the world, which is why we are so overly populated. |
Given the hate you practice inside you, towards your own parents,
evidently keeps you from understanding ALOT of true & praiseworthy
things
Such as the fact that, I spent my childhood, in a country where parents lovingly raised their children, and when the shoe went on the other foot, the children lovingly took care of their parents. - and NONE of this was out of guilt, either. - It was done this way because
it is THE 
RIGHT way to live: Never an orphanage, never a Daycare, & never a Nursing home.
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Originally Posted by russianrocket tho I doubt my post will encourage you to come on here
more, it's how I feel about the situation.
lol |
That you DONT care about another human being, but
only your own selfish self, came across loud & clear.
It wouldn't surprise me at all, in an accident somewhere,
hearing
you yell: "pffft, let the old hag die, we have too many already!!"
And I don't find that, anything worth laughing over.