| | Mass Produce Opportunity
Great posts. Two observations. One, it might be (I'm not sure) that your long list is "messing with the cursed hows" as described by Mike Dooley in his books regarding manifesting reality. Accordingly, you may be "c**k-blocking" the universe a bit, when it tries to bring you a dream mate whose traits are a little off the menu you have selected.
Second, I found the love of my life by simply "mass producing opportunity." Make a list of every conceivable way you can interact with the universe--be it physically by "going out there," interacting with people on the Internet, or whatever. A lot of people have found their mates by the Internet. I am a prime example. I had a system, as unromantic as that sounds. I considered my finding my girlfriend akin to mass-producing Model-Ts on a Ford assembly line. I manifested three coffee outings (not what I would call "dates") with a new woman each week (very easy to do on the Internet). Then, I just sat back and did the math: 3 x 52 weeks per year = 156 real-world contacts per year with a new woman. Take the most negative person you know (perhaps your mom)--someone who would say that a person's odds of finding someone he would be proud to have as a wife are 1 in 500, no big deal! It's no big deal because, according to such odds and the "mass-produce-opportunity" plan, the longest your journey to find your girlfriend would be is three years.
That may seem like a long time, but it's NOT. It goes by in the blink of an eye, and in the meantime, you're having a lot of fun, meeting lots of new people! Press on, my friend!