[MM19]

I know this may sound silly, but, if I think I have this all down, I am curious: If I manifest for myself that I am loving of myself, accepting of myself, and see my beauty and value, why is it then not possible to manifest a healing in him (this "breakthrough" that he keeps saying keeps us apart), that will allow our relationship to revive? Is it impossible to manifest a relationship with someone specifically? Is that what you have been saying to me about "being attached to an outcome?" I am so confused at this point. I am a new practitioner, both in the ways of yoga (Himalayan practice) and to intention manifestation. He too is a studier of yoga. I know that non-attachment, acceptance, and renunciation are a big part of that practice and this, so does that mean one must not be attached to the idea of a person, even if you hope to heal them as well as yourself? So feeling lost bc/ I really thought this manifestation thing was working for me and now I feel discouraged that the one thing I would like to manifest most (a return to the love and joy we felt/feel in our good moments - in a monogamous relationship) is not possible. Any help there? I guess what I mean is, if I am able to focus on myself and healing myself, why then, would it not also be possible to heal him and see our relationship healed as well? If I can "manifest" the healing of a friend's child, of a friend's father, and of my own brother, why not also heal him? SOOO confused! Thanks again, ladies. You are all a light that makes my days and my struggles not seem so dim! Blessings to you all!