When should you actually speak to the person about this? Months into dating? A year? It's hard to express some of the things I'm into without coming off as a "freak" to them, at least I can watch it in porn.
Seeking a spiritual man that has morals, family oriented, husband material, loves children, animals, is motivated, and a caring person.
Did I mention I like to be choked and hog tied on occasion? LOL. That never goes over well on the first date.