Hi, had a desire to pop in here and share that I love ho'oponopono.
Recently coming into it (about 2 months now) I have actually had some nice pleasant and big positive shifts in the relationship with my boyfriend. Last year the relationship had been not doing so well, I myself was in a fairly deep depression. There were many steps in healing for me between last year and when I found ho'oponopono.
My first validation was in this relationship when I took time one evening and cleaned on my ex-husband, and then the people I had been in relationship with since the marriage ended to my current guy. This allowed for major release and healing of some deep down hurts as I took responsibility and just cleaned and cleared.
Reflected in dreams..
In the past when my ex appeared in my dreams I was very very aggressive and angry towards him. After I did the cleaning and clearing I had a dream shortly after in which I took note of a major shift when he appeared that I was actually friendly and we talked the feelings I had were pure well wishes for him. I can say now that I have not had him appear in a dream since.
One time while talking on the phone with the person I work with and he brought up an issue with a client where I had forgotten to do something and he asked "what do we do about this?" I took responsibility and then said "I'm sorry, please forgive me, thank you, I love you!" and he got quiet (I think he was a bit stunned) and a solution popped immediately into my mind. I told him my idea, he liked it and the client was happy too.
I now clean and clear, most times it is on auto pilot but I do take time at night before falling asleep to clean and clear on specific issues, people and things.
One validation I appreciated when I read Zero Limits was that they put forth the idea that inanimate objects have feelings.. I have been known throughout my life to imbue objects with a personality and feelings.
That was my little bit to share but, I am so thankful and happy to have found Ho'oponopono via this forum. So Please allow me to say thank you, I love you