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Old 08-11-2007, 03:31 PM
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This is the reason and suggestion to it:

It's the past!

When you are a little boy, you might fall into 2 incidents!

1. Influence by your mother. Your mother is the closest woman when you are young. Childhood influence is very very huge. Maybe you mother did something really bad or you don't like something about her. And you decided in a very young age that woman is bad or I'm not going to like woman. After for awhile, you forget about it but it's influencing your subconscious about all woman are like that.

2. You might be hurt by a girl when you are young. And you tell yourself something bad about girl that influence you the rest of your life.

Don't blame them!

You know why you should not blame them? BECAUSE IT'S YOUR LIFE!

Blaming will only make this situation happens- "THEY MAKE ME BE LIKE THIS! i CAN'T HELP IT!" You let the past control you and not yourself controlling your life. So...

Just be responsible and start practice to like woman. Tell yourself that you won't let your experience of your childhood to influence you. Nothing you say when you are a child is true(hey! you are still young and don't know anything yet!).

When you know it's untrue, you really can start to like woman!
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