anger and outbursts are a reaction when you are fed up with being out of control. For example, when your plans are changed beyond your control or you are just sick of your current situaiton. it is a clue that a different way of functioning is an immediate need. like einstein said, doing the same thing over and over expecting different results is insanity, don't go back to your childhood, or over analyze yourself, just live your life, (i am speaking from my own experience)
