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Hello,
The more I get into this, the more questions I have! 
Basically, for all of my adult life, I've been unhappy with my body and wanting to lose weight. My hubby and I have also been trying to have a child for the past 10 years. We've been told we have "unexplained" infertility.
Could my desire to be thin actually be manifesting my infertility??
How could I change this to my favor?
Weight loss has been a dominating thought for so many years that I didn't realize until this morning that maybe I'm blocking my own future children!
I saw a psychic once a few years ago who claimed I would have 4 children (boy, girl, boy, boy). I always joke that I'm so old now (mid-30's) that I'd have to have them all at once!
Thanks for any advice!
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Hi wilddreamer,
You can help to change this out by loving and approving of yourself. You should get the book by louise hay:
YOU CAN HEAL YOUR LIFE. It really is a great book and in it is an exercise where everyday you just say to yourself in a mirror that you love and approve of yourself. When you love and approve of yourself you can really start to transform things all across the board.
Also, with any pregnancy, there is definetely divine timing involved. The souls that are to be your children have a set time and date that they want to be born and you can have all the sex you want and do all the fertility treatments - but if they do not want to be born for another 3 years, then that is what will happen.
In the meantime, go get tons of books on baby and toddler care (believe me when you have kids you will not have time to read - I have never had kids, but my sisters did and I know they had little time to themselves once they had kids) and also get decorating ideas for the nursery and this will keep your hopes up and keep your mind preoccupied on other things. Also, go have fun with your husband and go travel (when the kids come you won't have time for that either!), go out for romantic dinners and so forth and before long you will get pregnant.