Originally Posted by rawxstasy
I would add with when someone makes a comment about your looks - tell yourself. "They must not like themselves very much." or "I feel sorry for them, they must be very unhappy." At first your mind will tell yourself "this is bull* " etc. But keep at it, eventually you will assimilate these thoughts until it comes up naturally.
I have to disagree with this advice, simply because it involves thinking about the very people that she wants to stop considering. When you commit to thinking about someone, you commit to being influenced by them, and the people insulting her on the streets are some of the least likely to provide a positive influence. The mark of success will be when she doesn't think about them, neither to fear nor to pity.