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maxkhristov · 09-28-2011, 05:14 PM

The word attractive can also mean, inviting, pleasing, magnetic, engaging. It does not have to be physical.
Do things that you like, that please you, that engage you, and you will be the embodiment of attractive.
Being interested in different things shows that youre focused. Hobbies, etc.. When you have your mind focused, concentrated (as opposed receptive, waiting for others' approval), people will be interested and attracted to you and wonder what you're thinking about.
The secret is to be interested in something because it draws you in and not because you want others to notice you.

09-28-2011, 05:14 PM	#23 (permalink)
maxkhristov Member Join Date: Mar 2010 Location: Inside the Heart Posts: 74	Word attractive The word attractive can also mean, inviting, pleasing, magnetic, engaging. It does not have to be physical. Do things that you like, that please you, that engage you, and you will be the embodiment of attractive. Being interested in different things shows that youre focused. Hobbies, etc.. When you have your mind focused, concentrated (as opposed receptive, waiting for others' approval), people will be interested and attracted to you and wonder what you're thinking about. The secret is to be interested in something because it draws you in and not because you want others to notice you.