Hey, the point is that some particular traits are easier to tell in someone that others.
Steve traits about a woman, were easy to tell. Almost instant.
But for instance, honesty is very very hard to tell. Open-minded is easier. Funny is even easier.
I don't flirt much, I want to know the woman first... but that way I can only get to know deeply a few women and that narrows the things a lot (especially if you discover that they're already engaged, oops).
The only way I know is trying to flirt virtually with every woman, so you get to know her and then you see is that's what you look for...
Then they call this "a player" lol... and maybe the woman says "but ain't you in love with me?" "No!" we're just searching. But somewhat I don't like that process, if not I would be into.
If I can't flirt, is because I don't flirt. Everyone can flirt if I don't is because I really don't try. There should be a better way instead the dating game. I'm not motivated by it.
|