I'll start... I learned at lot of things, and here's one:
I had come to the workshop with a new career path in mind that I was stalled on. Steve’s approach is to look at career / relationships / etc. in four quadrants:
body (i.e. the physical reality): looks good for this idea
mind: yes, a good fit
heart: very low; feel very little desire
spirit: yes, this would be a good contribution to make to help other people
What I uncovered during the relationship part of the workshop is that I’ve been unwittingly starving myself of the affection I need. My heart’s reaction to the idea of any project is to say, “no more! enough!”
So my intention now is to focus first on my relationship needs, and see what happens with the career idea… perhaps I will feel reinvigorated with relationship abundance in my life; perhaps it will morph into something else; perhaps I’ll end up doing something completely different. ^_^
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