In my mind, a healthy attitude toward sex and acceptance of pornography are two distinctly different things. The #1 problem with porn is that it doesn't reflect reality. Pornography typically shows only the best looking women, something that most women can't compete with. It also tries to pass off behaviors that would be degrading or offensive to many people as if they were completely normal. (Guys, how many of your women let you come on their face? Gals, how many of you would even allow this?)
Morality aside, the messages being sent by pornography aren't realistic. It's essentially pure fantasy most of the time and has the effect of dumbing down your desire to socialize with real people, replacing it with a quick high spurred along by an unrealistic fantasy.
Now I'm not saying you can't enjoy porn, but you have to realize what you're looking at and know that it can be very addictive. If it's starting to replace your social life, it's time to re-evaluate.
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