Most of the guys do that. They end up used to it. It's not challenging. It's like looking for approval.
If you ever want to get involved into that relationship into a deepen level other than just-being-friends, then I recommend you take action by actually
offering solutions to her. Say let's do this or that. She's going to feel more compelled to pick one than being confused. Or how do you feel comfortable with visiting
this or
that place? Make it challenging, make it such intense that gets the vibe that: "I really won't want to miss this." Show her what is it like to be around and have fun with a man that knows what he wants from life.
I could go on and on to ramble why this is important
at first when a relationship is on the beginning but I'd end up pretty redundant.
Anywho,
have fun whatever you decide and wherever the two of you will actually go.