Hey, jsot,
That's great news. First and foremost I wish you a magnificent Thursday.
Second, I'd advice you to put yourself into the state right before this "date." Listen to your favorite music. You can't possible imagine what kind of effect music can have on our mental states and moods. Are you a Paraliminal user? I'd suggest one session of Instantaneous Personal Magnetism. If you don't know what I am talking about then ignore my previous sentence.
Third, just ask her if you want to. You will regret much more and complate, procrastinate if you don't actually take actually by wondering
what would happen if. Take charge, be bold, confident, caring, loving and kind, sure for yourself, these are the traits that are masculine and absolutely desired by women and girls of any ages. Find your inner masculinity, brother. Even though, it is much more challenging and way better at first if
you come up with ideas regarding the way how the two of you will spend those 'hanging-outs.'
Eliminate negative thoughts because fear can block your mind.
Then when you're with her, make that Thursday the best day she ever spent with a guy. You don't know where to go, what to do? That's no problem! Take her to places where she wasn't. Ask here, which part of this city aren't you familiar with? If she names a place that you don't know either then go and research that place while being together. Find out that district's attractions and so forth. If she names a place that you are familiar with then say, girl, you won't want to miss that place.
If these aforementioned scenarios aren't resonating with you then try the following. Take her a to place where the both of you can actually sit down. Pub, restaurant, bench,
sand on the beach, walk in the nature, mall, anything! Sit down and connect with her. Ask provocating and challenging questions and let her to do talking. Find more details about the two of you and share some of your passions, preferences and hobbies.
Just be yourself and focus upon her. If anxities or any sort of fears may arise, just focus just only upon her. You should feel as the world around you disappears, background noises diminish and you only see her, feel her, hear her and be in a separate plane/dimension
just with her. That's the ultimate connection that you can do gain to genuine rapport and everything will be
natural and not forced/faked. And oh, boy, she will sense that! Trust me.
Therefore, take action. Regardless what the two of you will spend that Thursday, the bottom-line is that make the best possible outcome from any situation...
the rest are details. It's not about the preferences and places to visit at first... it's more about the activities that the two of you endeavor into and the things you will share, the connection you generate, and emotions the two of you will ultimately experience. Rule #1: Be charming, kind, loving but bold and masculine. Rule #2: Don't be boring, don't talk about everyday topics. Rule #3: Be genuine and make your purpose as to find out more about her, find out her visions, ideals, attitude toward life and future, etc. Be challenging and fun. Have fun-- and I mean, a lot of
fun!
All the best,