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Originally Posted by Red Willow  How do you know when you've over-stepped your boundaries with the How's? Let's say you want a job. It seems you would first send out some resume's to companies you want to work for.
Or say you're trying to raise money for something or other--you would research grant foundations or possible financial backers and then pitch them, no?
Or you want to eat dinner, so you'd probably to to the grocery store and buy the food you want to prepare.
I'm just confused. I find it really difficult to understand how to not think about the how's? |
I think your confusion is coming from "how" you would do it... Rather than letting the how present itself to you... Does this make sense...?
Let's use your first example...
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Originally Posted by Red Willow Let's say you want a job. It seems you would first send out some resume's to companies you want to work for. |
What you suggest above is you trying to control the how... Instead, focus on the desire to work for company "insert company name here" then just continue to focus on the desire to work for that company, take no action until "reality" shows you the action to take (the how).