Tanvir - Thanks for the kudos! Keep in touch and let me know how you're doing.
SunnyDays - I can understand exactly what you're saying. Thanks for sharing. When we allow ourselves to shift internally, then the external triggering can totally shift as well. I remember the first time I knew that my dad, who I had been angry with, was no longer the same person I knew. And once I released enough conflict about him, I stopped being angry about the past, I stopped holding him and myself to the past, and I could see him more clearly now.
Our response is so powerful because when we get what it is truly about, we realize that we can choose what we embody, living from the inside-out, and can have greater levels of awareness and love, instead of feeling subjugated by our circumstances.