Originally Posted by Rezzy7
Yeah, I think I understand "escalating" physically, and it comes way more natch than the talky part.
Then I think you already know what to do. Are you wondering how to figure out if a woman is attracted to you and you want to know that before you do anything physical?
Regarding the "talky part", flirty talk can be fun if it feels natural and spontaneous, but it isn't necessary to move a relationship along sexually. Just talk and get to know her and share yourself and convey the sexual interest with the way you look at her, compliment her, stand close to her, hold her hand, etc. Just keep getting more and more physical with her. If she is interested in you, she'll respond and start to do more of that too.
Compliments can be useful in conveying interest. I prefer ones that are simple, specific and not too aggressive. Here are two examples that come to mind, perhaps you can guess which one I enjoyed and which one made me want the guy to go away:
"Your eyes are really beautiful."
"You have great t!ts, you could work in a t!tty bar."
I only kept talking to one of these guys. LOL!!!