Originally Posted by Rezzy7
The other part confuses me. How is what Vince suggested gentle?
LOL!! Notice I only quoted the part about doing something physical. "It's always better to make it physical by doing something physical." That whole neck grab thing didn't feel so good to me so I left that off. I don't think I'd ever want my neck grabbed and especially not as a first move. Looking in to her eyes is excellent though. Also moving very close into her space can be pretty fantastic. There is something very exciting about that, especially if I'm leaning against a counter or wall or something. If she doesn't like it she will move away and if she stays or moves closer or touches you that's a great sign for you to touch her or kiss her.