08-30-2011, 01:38 AM
Join Date: Nov 2010
Location: West Coast USA
Thanks Oceans for stating it so simply! I guess I'm doing many of those things anyway. Well, here's to eventually! Thanks.
Originally Posted by laughingmatter
Of course eventually you don't need to do this as you learn to read women better,
Thanks, your point about me being comfortable and basically her following my lead in that sense, makes, well...sense.
Originally Posted by LisaDreams
Regarding acceptable, I think if you do what is comfortable for you, it will be okay. If she's into you, then she'll respond with enthusiasm. If she's not, she'll pull away, but probably won't be offended. You seem like a gentle enough person (since you're concerned) and if your intention is gentle she'll most likely know that.
The other part confuses me. How is what Vince suggested gentle?