[Rezzy7]

Thanks Oceans for stating it so simply! I guess I'm doing many of those things anyway.

Originally Posted by laughingmatter

Of course eventually you don't need to do this as you learn to read women better,

Well, here's to eventually! Thanks.

Originally Posted by LisaDreams

Regarding acceptable, I think if you do what is comfortable for you, it will be okay. If she's into you, then she'll respond with enthusiasm. If she's not, she'll pull away, but probably won't be offended. You seem like a gentle enough person (since you're concerned) and if your intention is gentle she'll most likely know that.

Thanks, your point about me being comfortable and basically her following my lead in that sense, makes, well...sense.

The other part confuses me. How is what Vince suggested gentle?