Originally Posted by Rezzy7
How do you know what is effective and acceptable?
Originally Posted by VinceG
It's always better to make it physical by doing something physical.
Regarding effectiveness, I agree with Vince. Do something. Talking can be clumsy and ambiguous.
Regarding acceptable, I think if you do what is comfortable for you, it will be okay. If she's into you, then she'll respond with enthusiasm. If she's not, she'll pull away, but probably won't be offended. You seem like a gentle enough person (since you're concerned) and if your intention is gentle she'll most likely know that.